2006-10-01 22:14:24 · 37 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Well, I guess u don’t have to do anything because he says this every time u argue together and he does not do anything to himself too! And trust me he won’t. People committing suicide they usually go under massive psychological stress, pressure and depression before they really commit it. In other words ur boyfriend is fine, he only wants to give u a hard time and to make u pay more attention to him. Frankly I don’t think u r so happy in this relation. But I may tell u that such boys gets joy by harassing their girlfriends mentally. Plz do be a victim of such a thing. It is also obvious that u r still a young pretty girl and if he is treating u badly or harming u, plz leave him and don’t feel sorry for him as he will always try to make u feel as a horrible heartless girl, don’t fall into this. Some people suffer from emotion negligence from their parents and family members; this may have a real negative impact on a person’s personality, which its severity varies from one person to the other. If it is the case u cant do ANYTHING to it, such problems r solved differently.
And if it is not, then I am sorry for making u read such a boring advice but everyday we see such cases. Good luck.
2006-10-01 22:56:33 · answer #1 · answered by Tulip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He needs to talk to a counselor - if this is something he threatens that is just not right because even if you two don't work out, you will never feel safe leaving him - you wouldn' t want him to hurt himself.
Tell him if he loved you - he wouldn't put that over your head, on your shoulders, etc... that relationships take work and fights don't mean anything but that even if you two were to break up for some reason, threats like that are not right. Ask him why he would want you to stay with him - 1) cause you love him or 2) cause he makes you feel like you have to by threatening to kill himself.
I had a bf that did this a long time ago and he turned out to be a complete psycho - no kidding.. these are the guys that will stalk you when it is over and may even harm you - I would be careful.
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2006-10-01 22:18:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a very serious thing, in the last year i have personally known 3 people that have committed suicide. Whether or not you think he is serious you should have him talk to a councilor. Studies show that while women are more likely to attempt suicide men commit more often, which is due to the fact that they have more aggressive natures. While he may be bluffing I think you need to treat this seriously, because what is the harm in doing that. Now imagine if you didn't take him seriously, and he ended up telling the truth... would you feel worse? i would imagine.
2006-10-01 22:20:44 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Suicide is a cowards way "out" and it's the most selfish thing a person can do. So, if you really want to help the guy, get him some counseling; he truly needs it. If you're tired of this crap (which I would be) and being threatened, just leave him. Chances are he's just talking about it to keep you around...and it's working! Get out while you can! This man is "mental". Godloveya.
2006-10-01 23:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He could be the type of guy who always wants to be right about things. Sometimes people like that would get really upset if someone proves them wrong or just argues with them about things. That's when they put their life on the line. Try calling up a Rehab center so people can help him.
2006-10-01 22:18:40 · answer #5 · answered by litoaznmidget720 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I used to have a guy like that. Because he stresses out over the small things and feels very insecure. I don't know how serious you are, but try telling him that if he doesnt' relax it is going to strain the relationship. But dont ever use the fact that he is insecure against him or to get what you want, you will be sorry for that one.
2006-10-01 22:17:11 · answer #6 · answered by km 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You mean to say that he always gets suicidal, or makes threats about killing himself?
Sounds like emotional blackmail to me, if every time you cross him he threatens to take his own life, it sounds like he is trying to control you in one of the lowest and most cowardly ways possible. I would either have a very long and serious talk with him and try and make him see how unfair he is being, or tell him to get lost.
Tell him to argue like a man, not with self obsessed threats to make you pity him.
2006-10-01 22:18:08 · answer #7 · answered by HP 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Suggest he get some counseling and talk to his family and close friends and tell them what he's saying to you.
If he is a true friend, then you need to try and get him some help, but if he's someone that you've only just met, or are not that invested in, then send the message out to others and bail...quickly.
2006-10-01 22:17:42 · answer #8 · answered by Dolphin lover 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Some people really have a problem that u might not even know about. Call his parents and then get the heck out of dodge, your not his mother, wife, or shrink. It's your place to keep yourself safe.
2006-10-01 22:31:25 · answer #9 · answered by vickie p 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he's rich, ask him not forget you in his will.
On a more serious note, don't allow him to manipulate with your feelings and control you like that. He needs to learn to respect you, not to control and emotionally abuse you.Demand the respect from him and do not settle for any less.
2006-10-01 22:24:01 · answer #10 · answered by OC 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋