i cant seem to sleep eat or think ,when i sleep i awke thinking of him feeling scared .we lived together 2 years.and im scared.i turn on comp again .but im so tired.but when i close my eyes all i think of is him while i kno whe is asleep not feeling blue ..i dont wish this on noone.
2006-10-01 22:10:15 · 12 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Yes, many people have experienced these feelings. Part of it in your case is because you invested more than 2 years in the relationship, and now you feel you have nothing.
But you do have all those positive memories.
Know that you will have better memories in the times to come.
Maybe this just wasn't the one, and when you overcome your grief, you will be in a frame of mind to find a new love.
It will take a little bit of time, but you need to get out just a little bit. Take a little time, and don't rush into anything.
Time will heal this pain,
And someday, the pain will be gone and you'll be making new memories, wandering why you troubled yourself over the grieving period. When that time comes, remember that grief for that situation is normal, but don't let it stop you from new life experiences.
Good luck.
2006-10-09 21:22:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
know the feeling sweetie. It will pass, try taking on something that will fill the time you used to share. I am a Christian so I read my Bible more and prayed. But you might try yoga or something that will relax you. Also when I feel like I am getting emotional over a guy, I go running, cause that is what I like to do. But whatever you like, getting a good work out (and I mean working up a good sweat), will help bring the stress levels down and will help you fall asleep because you are tired. Honey, I feel for you... hope this helps.
2006-10-02 05:14:40 · answer #2 · answered by km 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh hon, you just took me back to my break up. I cried for months. I tried to get him back by sabotaging his new relationship and I just couldn't function. I would never wish it on anybody. It took almost two years to recover from even though you probably don't want to hear that right now. One thing helped me, a book called "single and loving it" It takes you through all the stages you are likely to go through. I was completly dependant on that guy and it broke my heart. Invest in a good self help book and just know things will get better. I am now engaged to an amazing man and we've been together for almost three years. IT WILL GET BETTER!!!! I promise, but not before you spend some time being single and redescovering the things you like. Treat yourself like your partner. Pamper yourself and do all the things for yourself that you would do for somebody you love. Get a massage, paint your nails, cook yourself an amazing meal. Right now it's all about you. You are loved. You have family and friends who care. I really care cause i know how bad it hurts. Email me if you need anytime. xx
2006-10-02 05:19:31 · answer #3 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear
i have been there it was too bad for me
but i got over, i got happier.... the most important thing to do is,
take care of ua self, eat well dress well n if possible go out
give ua self a new look,
get away and always keep ua self busy
most important get a good friend to talk to, share ua frustrations n all ua feelings.
u can talk to me if u wish.
i wish u luck and am sure u will get over, remember to pray right now u need many prayers
2006-10-02 08:09:03 · answer #4 · answered by moori3100 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hon, never feel like your not worthy, because u are, Please don't burn all your good energy on what he's doing, thinking, and he's probably stroking to some book, and your sitting their hurting your health, when he can't even get a date. Fix yourself up get out of the house with a great spirited girlfriend live the single life. Drop this zero and get u a hero.
2006-10-02 05:18:26 · answer #5 · answered by vickie p 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya i know it hurts a lot but you have to eat first you will feel a lot better then one day at a time it maybe hard at times life gos on you will meat some one then you will forget all this my wife did it to me it hurt for a long time sleeping will be hard see if you can get a pet maybe a dog a little one like i did sorry for you good luck to you
2006-10-02 05:19:02 · answer #6 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
even if you dont wish it on anyone, it still happens, use the fact that he isnt feeling bad about it as fuel , when you start to realize that he doesnt care , you will find it much easier to get on with life , ive been there
2006-10-02 05:14:16 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
same here, you may want to skip the radio and songs that make you relive your break up, all thing do heal with time, best wishes
2006-10-02 05:14:13 · answer #8 · answered by blue_eyed_southernman 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Think about it this way: Its good its over now than later
2006-10-02 05:46:53 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
cheer up it will get better though it doesnt feel like it now
you need to eat or you will make yourself ill and no man is worth that
no man is worth your tears and the one who is wont make you cry
2006-10-02 05:13:09 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋