Are you in favor of pre-marital sex? Why or why not?

Answer 1

dear:
If you want do it..no problem..
But I should say that no man should compell a girl to do sex before their legal marriage...

Answer 2

Yes and No...

I am a religious type, but I put premarital sex up there with running around naked. We said we can't run around naked, not God. God also said we can't have sex with some body's wife not the single girl from down the street.

However since this is the "Adolescent" category, of this section, I have to say NO! Its not about God, its about you. If as an adolescent you can go through all the courtship and commitment of getting married, then you may be old enough to have sex (but prove it by getting married first.)
Otherwise wait until you have a cellphone because your work commitment requires that you have one (not because you want one), you have no credit cards because you have "Discovered" the joys of paying with cash, and not owing your life to the bank. Wait until you are old enough to have a partner that has had a few hours of intimacy under their belt and are more worried about how you feel, rather than how they are feeling. Pre-marital sex is great between consenting adults, some of us just take a long time to grow up.

Answer 3

I'm not in favor OR against it. Some people might never get married, but be deeply in love with a person. There are so many cases that are wrong, and so many that are ok. It all depends. Now the one thing that I am against is 12 and 13 year olds having sex. I'm 13 and can't even imagine losing my virginity that young. If your in love with someone, committed, emotionally ready, protected/safe, and have back-up plans for when things go wrong then I don't see much wrong with it. It really depends.

Answer 4

Yes, i am in favor of pre-marital sex.

because 1. there is no reason to wait 2. it allows you to learn about other areas of the person's personality before you are married 3. polite or not, the expression "practice makes perfect" does apply to sex. the more you know the other person's body and reactions the better the sex will be.

Just...wait till you're old enough, please. At LEAST 16, preferrably older. Before that your body just is NOT ready for sex and you'll be getting a...skewed perspective on how it's supposed to feel.

Answer 5

No, I'm a firm believer in waiting until marriage. And no, not because of religious reasons (I'm agnostic), but rather for common sense reasons. Example:
1) what happens if a baby results from your premarital relations? Is that person the person you want to spend the rest of your life with? You'll be tied to them forever. So many people make the stupid mistake of having sex with people they hardly know or they can't stand, then they end up having a baby with them! That's not fair for the baby!
2) STDs - If you're a virgin until marriage and marry a virgin (like I did) you don't have to worry about this! So many people are out having sex with so many different people - I think it's disgusting. Keep in mind, when you sleep with someone, you're sleeping with everyone else they've slept with! Nasty!
3) I think if someone trully loves you, they will stick around and wait it out with you. If they can't, imo, they don't love you at all.

Answer 6

Dear Leeane, I am not against it, but I am against promiscuity -- do you know that word? If not you're wayyyyyyyyyyy too young. Having intimate contact with someone should only happen if you are VERY MUCH IN LOVE (both of you) and it will take a while to really know someone truely, deeply enough to give them your person body's MOST IMPORTANT, MOST PRECIOUS GIFT !!!
As you can see most YES--DO IT answers are coming from boys !!!!!
You have to be physically and emotionally mature enough to have sex with someone -- it's NOT A GAME. It's your life and you must seriously consider anything that will effect your life so deeply. Are you being pushed toward sex by an over anxious boy???? Is he going to marry you if you get pregnant? Is he mature enough to get a job & work EVERY DAY to buy: diapers, formuls, clothes for all 3 of you, rent, electricty, telephone, food, a savings account for the future, doctor bills, life ins., health ins., car pymts., car ins., gasoline and a dozen other things ????
I say wait til you go to college, fall in love with a GREAT GUY , & have dwn pymt for a home -- then have sex after you are ENGAGED !!!!
i KNOW!!!! I didnt get to college, I got pregnant, I had a huge potential to have a wonderful life, but I had no adult woman to steer me right. Think of allllllllllllllll the wonderful things you could do with your life with a degree!!! You can wait til your 30s to marry ! BEST WISHES, dont throw away your gift on someone who doesnt love you and cant take care of you!!!!!!

Answer 7

i lost my virginity when i wasn't married, i'm still not married. i am careful and don't just sleep with anyone though. i do regularly get checked up on std's and hiv as well. i think if you are ready to have sex you are ready for whatever comes along with it, so as long as someone is ready then that is a decision they can make. i do think to though you should wait till you are a bit older, avoid a teenage pregnancy (i didn't do anything till i was 18), and wait till you've at least obtained a high school diploma. i have a ton of respect for people who wait till marriage, and at times i wish i would've waited. i have no regrets and i know that when i am married, it will be just as special if not more so than if i'd have waited. at least on my wedding night i won't be disgusted, nervous, and scared like i was when i lost my virginity.

Answer 8

no, I had two daughters with a total loser. Would he have stuck around if I had said "no ring, no sex"? I doubt it. when I finally got married to the most wonderful man, I told him that I wasn't willing to get intimate untill I had found the man I would marry. He was so excited, that he asked me to marry him the next week! We eloped and immediately got a hotel room (and a baby sitter). It's just one more way to weed out the ones who aren't serious. thats all. I mean i'm not religious or anything.

Answer 9

Are you guys out of yer minds? Only via marriage can you find out whether your partner has STDs or not. It is better to be safe than sorry. This is cliched, but true. If you go and have premarital sex, you are playing with your life hapharzardly. It is tantamount to signing your death warrant if you have premarital sex with someone infected with HIV. Then again, if you guys don't value life, go ahead. You'll be regretting till you die.

Answer 10

It seems the people who are against it are those religious nuts who tell you how to run your life and push thier beliefs on you...I personally don't have anything against it and I don't have anything against people who have sex before marriage.Not trying to sound religious or anything but God did tell Adam and Eve to go forth and multiply but I will say,if you are virgin and are thinking about having sex,two things-first one is,use protection and secondly,think it over long and hard.The reason I say this is because once you lose your virginity,that's it.You can't get it back.Hope that helped.I wish you well.

Answer 11

the modern world, even going through Asian societies (where i come from) abstinence has become rather obsolete. in my country the culture is slowly shifting from telling teens to stop having sex, to teaching teens to make informed choices.

of course if you do want to engage in premarital sex, you have to:
1. make sure you are past the legal age. the law is there to protect you from wayward sex predators.
2. make sure you don't engage it with strangers. sex is a very high order form of respect and trust towards each other. remember that.
3. make sure you are responsible and accountable towards yourself, and your sex partner. this is regardless of whether you're the guy or lady. one example of this is to engage ONLY in CONSENSUAL sex. don't pressurize or force it on him/her as you defeat the purpose of (2.)
4. always ALWAYS protect yourself from STD and unwanted babies via physical contraception at least. condoms are a must. unless its your soul mate i don't recommend using pills or other stuff that doesn't prevent exchange of genital fluids. doesn't harm to protect yourself one step further, even though the partner maybe your boy/girlfriend.

hope this lets you make an informed choice towards your sexual adventures haha. remember practice accountability/responsibility not promiscuity. go make some love girl/dude =]