i took are of him for about 1 1/2 years he didnt work.now he found a job making ok money and all of a sudden we fighthe leaves and..doesnt want to be with me or live with me anymore?was he using me?before when we fight my sadness and crying he would come back home and well make up..he always came back now i begged like afool and he dont want to..what does thsi mean?
2006-10-01 21:12:33 · 15 answers · asked by cbutterflyc 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
i dont think you were used. i think that you were the best thing that has ever and will ever happen to him and he is taking it for granit. his job and money is getting to his head and he is gonna go out there, screw up, and probably beg for you to take him back...the question is will you?
2006-10-01 21:43:01 · answer #1 · answered by stoned 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hes not the "rite" guy for u. Theres so many men in the world someday that special someone will come in ur life =]
yeah maybe thats it.. he was using u at times when he didnt have a job.. but now he earns his own money... he probably thought that he can take care of himself.. other than that he probably found a new loverr.
2006-10-02 04:19:27 · answer #2 · answered by aznflipgurl808 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, perhaps he hurt you so much already he's afraid to face up to you and apologize and begging him only made him feel worse? That's his problem ...the only one you cant take care of...he has to deal with that with some time and maturity. Now, he has money and doesnt feel he should use you and should rely on himself.
Basically, you were his 'nurturer' nanny or mom. Unfortunately, your adult son is going out into the world to become a man. Let's hope he does.
2006-10-02 04:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem to be in a desperate mood. But who can manage it?
In my personal view, everyone is indeed using others. You are using him, aren't you? you want to be with him, because you feel happy when you get along; you "raise" him for you need his being with you. So when he got a job and the partnership between you was over, it was natural that he left you without regarding your feeling. What you need to do is just stopping feeling sad about him, 'cause everyting has been over except that you can find another appeal that can drag him back to you. Understand? We are all using others!
2006-10-02 04:20:45 · answer #4 · answered by Mandy J 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I see self esteem problems and you have something more important to worry about, education. Use the spell check button. Toughen up feeling are nothing but emotions. It won't be the last time someone hurts your feelings consider yourself lucky. you could have been tricked out of your life or maimed for the rest of your life. Have a good day!
2006-10-02 04:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Ms. Mo B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sorry to tell you this but the romance is over, he needed a person to lean on while the going was tough, you happened to be the one, but now that his pockets are being filled with greenbacks, he no longer needs a crutch, I really am sorry"
2006-10-02 04:19:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cherokee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He stayed because you paid the bills; yep, that's what he did. Sounds like he learned from some of the ladies out there how to get by.
2006-10-02 04:27:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just using u do not give him a hand when hes out of his job again
2006-10-02 04:26:31 · answer #8 · answered by finestcali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok you made a fool of yourself when he was down & broke. stop begging. he is not worthy of you. now, stand up & show him that you deserve better. move on with your life. show him your life is better without him.
2006-10-02 04:22:08 · answer #9 · answered by lette 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you were used
2006-10-02 04:14:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋