My husband and I have been together for 6 years as a BF & GF and we get married 1 years ago. He use to be more consious about him i mean his cleanness, style and everything. Now unless he went out with his friends or somewhere he is leaving in another country for work so he doesn't work. So he stops taking a shower everyday, his car is dirty and so on. I feel like he disrespect me and it annoyes me very much. What do you think is the reason?
2006-10-01 20:56:30 · 5 answers · asked by Baby 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
The first two years of marriage are very hard. People change they let themselves go, they feel like the don't have to do certain things because they already got u and they don't need to impress you any more. What you are going through is very normal.
But this is the time to lay down the law and let him know what you are not going to stand for and other things he can probably get away with. If you don't he will continue to annoy you.
Remember you have to get use to living together and you probably annoy him too.
2006-10-01 21:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's gotten to comfortable with you. You unfortunately.. not on purpose.. let this happen and it's hard to break a person when they are used to something. SO you have to nip it in the bud ASAP.. because it's disgusting. Yes its disrespectful and you need to let him know what you think of him at this moment and that he needs to get his act together before you start having some really ill feelings towards him.. Unfortunately thats what happens over time and he needs to know.
2006-10-01 21:01:27 · answer #2 · answered by Mel and Ed 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe he feels a lack of motivation. Maybe you two can start doing things together. Organise a "date night" where you both have to get dressed up and spend time with each other, if you are short on cash you can cook a nice meal at home and eat with no television on.
Bring this up with him and tell him that it will make you feel happier and closer to him.
2006-10-01 20:59:32 · answer #3 · answered by Knowitall 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's very comfortable with you and thinks he can get away with it. Tell him to clean up his act.
2006-10-02 10:48:16 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't know, but I would sure have a heart to heart talk with him about his hygeine.
2006-10-01 20:58:58 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋