I cant stand people that have to cheat on the person they are with. I mean come on now what are you trying too prove here that ur nothing its not going to get you no where and i feel so bad for the guy or women that gets cheated on its like damn if you dont want to be with that person and want to cheat on them then just brake up with him or her dont waste there time being stuck with ur @$$ so just take a step back and tell yourself is this what i really want to do what if its the other way around if he or she cheated on me uhhh i wouldnt like it i would get so pissed so yeah step back and tell yourself is this what i really want to do cuzz if so then stay away from realtionships. If there somthing that i cant stand in this world so much its liars, and cheaters in realtionships
2006-10-01 20:46:25 · 12 answers · asked by LifesJourney 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Well, I wouldn't use the word "hate". Angry is more like it cuz it gives those people who don't cheat a bad name. And I don't care how others try to rationalize their "so-called" reasons for cheating because the truth is, they're all just excuses...plain and simple.
2006-10-01 21:22:38 · answer #1 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Mere cheating is one of the worst deeds.. But love and sex affairs are very complicated, sometimes people prefer to cheat a guy (girl) instead of telling him the truth lest he should be injured and probably shocked..Sometimes people want to enjoy life and have more experience with many partners ( this is their right, no body owns their emotion) , sometimes people wants only to release their pain during a certain time or period and the other partner will understand the whole affairs as cheating..
In this regard I think only husbands and wives have the full right to complain tragically for the behavior of the other partner, others have to be flexible and change partners..
2006-10-01 21:25:03 · answer #2 · answered by Nilehawk 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I guess I agree, but when you say "cheat" you know you are implying that there are set rules... maybe the person who cheats doesn't really buy into the rules and only pretends to accept the rules. I think our job in being with a partner is to get clear with each other what the REAL rules are for US, and not assume that we are playing the same game as everyone else. But I'm not dismissing your complaint. Dishonesty and betrayal are very hurtful. Better luck next time.
2006-10-01 21:22:08 · answer #3 · answered by uncle 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not easy for any human being to be always honest 100 percent!!!!!!
Yes, it hurts in a relationship to be cheated, to be betrayed by a friend, by colleagues at work etc... but I think that it is part of life and we all need to learn how to deal with it.
I personally don't trust anyone 100 percent because we have weakness and we all try our best. I think that we should first try to understand why that person was able to hurt us so much.
I know that it is not easy but you need to try. After you have considered the situation you make your final decision if that person deserves to be part of your life. ( friend, husband etc.)
Good Luck!
2006-10-01 21:00:41 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes I hate peolpe who cheat.It's like wasting your life away for something that isn't true to you.You can try to give your heart out as much as you can.You will get hurt couple of times.But one day you will find that special love one that will respect you for what ever means.I should know because I've been there before.
2006-10-01 21:25:18 · answer #5 · answered by KEVIN K 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I dont blame you man amen to that why waste the time with the person you are with cant stand people like that myself its just wrong
2006-10-01 21:20:02 · answer #6 · answered by finestcali 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not all people that cheat are wrong.. there are many reasons for an affair however most are selfish i agree and wrong.. hate is to strong of a word
2006-10-01 20:51:26 · answer #7 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
amen to that! I'm with you. Wish there was more people like you. Then it wouldn't be so scary to get into a relationship.
2006-10-01 21:03:35 · answer #8 · answered by Mel and Ed 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i can't stand them why do thy hurt people wife's friends when thy catch them doing it lock them up thank you
2006-10-01 21:08:55 · answer #9 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
a sort of yah...but i pity them a lot.....karma gets back hard ...sometimes even harder that you would want to die instead....
2006-10-01 22:54:49 · answer #10 · answered by maic 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋