It's her fault and we separated, one night asked me out for dinner with three friends, on male on female, both my classmates, but during the dinner the man besides her put his farking hand on my girlfriend hand, I am holding back my anger when I saw this, but to my farking surprise, she put her head on the boy's shoulder! BEFORE ME! HOW COULD THEY DO THAT?
She meant to invite me to get together with me again but look at what shes done! I'm extremely angry and I left the cafe. The boy is jerk I know he wanted my girlfriend for a long time, my girl doesn't believe that and just took him as a friend. Well friend, is ok, but the behavior is unbearable!
She still doesn't think she's wrong, she think she's never wrong! Every time if there's a problem it must be my mistake and I must take the consequence and suffer the pain. (she suffered too, but not because of those consequence, but because of my anger to her)
And now she's like, I hurt her and she won't give me a chance and she'll love him
2006-10-01 20:29:54 · 13 answers · asked by umcris 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
" must take the consequence and suffer the pain. (she suffered too, but not because of those consequence, but because of my anger to her)" You say all of this then wonder why she doesn't love you anymore? You jealousy over somthing that was innocent drove her away and personally i think she is better off gone if your abusing her like it sounds
2006-10-01 20:37:22 · answer #1 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok it sounds like a innocent gesture on his part could have been mistaken on ur part understandable and it happens. But putting her head on his shoulder is more intimate and I am not sure if she as serious about you as u are about her. Ur feelings of anger and hurt seem to be valid however I think that u should have a conversation with her about where this relationship between u is going and what she think's is going on between you because maybe she doesn't realise how serious u are about her or maybe she isn't as serious about u as u are about her. So that u can both avoid this sort of thing in the future. Good Luck
2006-10-01 20:44:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to read this... I think you deserve more. I had similar problems with my ex-girlfriend, while we were together - whenever someone flattered her, she was ready to accept these comments. Recently, we discussed this issue again - now not being together and she said that while being with me she had at least some kind of immunity. And that now she is sick of all the impertinent boys. I told her that it is her choice whether or not to reject such behaviour from boys and that she has to choose with whom she wants to be.
She answered: "I am learning to do this" I told her: "Good for you" Human behaviour (especially that of girls) is strange - we crave for what we don't have.
You have to show your girlfriend that you can make it on your own - and that she has to respect you if she wants to be with you!
DO NOT RUN AFTER HER! It may sound harsh, but she is NOT THE ONLY GIRL around...
You need to find a girl that KNOWS WHAT SHE WANTS. Usually this is a characteristic, related to MATURITY - this comes with age!
2006-10-01 20:51:21 · answer #3 · answered by Rover 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you want my opinion I say just try and get over her. It's way easier said than done I know. But if she's showing you this much disrespect and lack of concern then I don't see it getting much better over the years to come.
I think what you said happened was wrong and distasteful. Hope you feel better soon
2006-10-01 20:36:21 · answer #4 · answered by Camrnhill 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
look ill be honest ina past relationship i cheated on my boyfriend but i loved him he made me mad and i had to get back at him i love him still to this day but how it all happened was kinda like your problem we were all out eatin and suddenly we just started holdin hands i loved him i really did but i wouldnt have been tempted if i would have been happy in the relationship so the best thing to do is get things worked out then try to get back with her and show her how much you really care about her
2006-10-01 20:59:46 · answer #5 · answered by *t. 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What is the "farking" problem? Apparently she doesn't even respect you to be doing that right in your face. Get a clue and find someone else.
2006-10-01 20:38:57 · answer #6 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't bother with her, she'll just make you pop a blood vessel or something if you keep thinking about it.
2006-10-01 21:14:59 · answer #7 · answered by lelecw14 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go back to your wife, she loves you more than anything and will reprioritize putting you as #1 priority! at least you know you are loved and will have stability there and always can count on tomarrows at home. GO HOME TO YOUR WIFE CHRIS, SHE'S WAITING IN TEARS!
2006-10-04 22:35:07 · answer #8 · answered by Tina Zecca 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find someone new…leave the rest to karma, she will pay for her behavior
2006-10-04 03:40:37 · answer #9 · answered by Propeller Boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would dump her, she didnt care about how you felt, shes not the one for you. find someone else.
2006-10-01 20:36:05 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋