Do you think it is normal for me to feel extremely left out from my best friend? He used to hang out with me almost all the time but recently he started to hang out with others and left me out a lot. He used to tell me that he doesn't have any friends before but now it's like when he get new friends he forget the old one. I always help him a lot of time. Nowadays, he is just weird. I used to take the same class with him but now i've exchanged my class. All my classmates really don't want me to exchange class and they past their comments. But this guy just didn't say anything. Do you think that it is my mistake to help him in the first place? Does he thinks of me as I think of him (best friend)? What should I do about my 'extremely left out' feeling? Help me............ sometimes later i could easily be so depressed just because of this problem!!!!!
2006-10-01 20:05:52 · 5 answers · asked by some1 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
well,,,you can't exspect him to be there when you need him...he is a friend...some times life brings to people together for different reasons...like you said he had no friends before...maybe you guys hanging out helped him be more scocial. Making new friends are good...you can keep the old ones...even if you don't hang with them everday. I have plenty best friends i haven't seen in years ...because they moved on...even in school the girls that i spent the last 4 years with in junior high(I am much older now) have moved on to high school and college and made tons of friends...i don't know the others...but we still talk sometimes....Seems that you need to make other firends and maybe your so wanting to be close to him,...is scaring him away. He wasn't your so no need to feel depressed like someone took him from you. Everrybody moves on...you have to move on two....To tell you the truth.....the way you are acting...make me think there is more to liking him than you'll admit....i could be wrong...but ...if you change classes because a guy friend wont talk to you....there will be other commits passed around.....
2006-10-01 20:15:00 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People change!!! I feel the same. I had friends that I have helped out a lot and was always available. Since their carrier, personal life etc..... has changed I am not anymore of interest to them since I have lost a job and went into depression for a year.
Thanks to my strong personality I am OK now.
The so called "Friends" forget very easily when their life is wonderful, the friends that were with them always.
What can I say in life we all go through disappointments and this is one that really hurts.
You sound very young and I am sure that you will be able to overcome this situation. Think positive, life is still beautiful.
2006-10-01 20:33:17 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow. That doesnt sound like a virgo in any admire. It might simply be the guys and females you realise since i know many virgos and they are very docile. They're laid once more not physically abusive. Most virgos arent built so difficult both they are tall most often lol and they are a little of picky, sarcastic however not verbally abusive. And every body will get mad most of the time, your peers simply take it to a different degree and no offense nonetheless it looks like they wish help if they're bodily abusive. And u being a libra you're correct, u wont detect them lol. Libras prefer swiftly earlier than anything. They dont examine the entire recommendations like a virgo does so that they would possibly not get alongside all that well too. No offense. It is determined by delivery charts and u've checked they're majority virgo....What approximately their mars sign? Cuz if its virgo then they wont be abusive in any of the revel in, they would be the opposite! Virgos are by and large candy hearts with OCD =].
2016-08-29 09:21:20 · answer #3 · answered by stults 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes, of course it is normal for you to feel left out if that is what your friend is doing, leaving you out. it's not a mistake for you to help him, because that is in your nature to be helpful....continue to be this way with other people. best friends don't treat you this way....he does not have the qualities to be your best friend....you deserve someone that wants to be your friend always, even when he makes new friends, and someone that treats their friends fairly and kindly. your friend does not do this. you need to make new friends, not just have one, especially not him. there are other classmates that like you, so focus on being friends with them, and let go of your thoughts around him because you can't change the situation (unless you try to talk to him), you have to accept it and move ahead. otherwise, you will be depressed.
2006-10-01 20:28:56 · answer #4 · answered by gurrrly 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
juz dont go into him... if u want this problem shd not occur much then go on & talk to him openly.like it can b indirectly or in joking sense.tht 'aftr meeting new frndz,u hv forgotten me completely watz rong,'this that..letz c watz his reply.. or u can do is juz have a little gap,little conversation wid him,let me tel u , if u want him back,dnt juz jump over to him evrytime,give him time to miss u also... or change ur appearence & b cool & go to him..b frank to him or juz analize him very wel wat he does & why,,& he will definately talk2u.BEST LUCK!
2006-10-01 20:31:46 · answer #5 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋