ok heres the deal...
Me and my bf have been going out since I was in 6th grade and He has moved away..I am really really sad and I really miss him.I havent talked to him in a while and I dont know how else to get ahold of him I have tried email letters phone text ims and everything and still nothing..DO you think that means he hates me now and doesnt love me anymore..I mean I know I may sound dumb about this but do you think thats what it is that he doesnt want to talkt o me anymore??Anyway I feel like a failure because of all this ..I feel like i failed him and me and out relationship but on the other hand I feel that I have given it my all to get ahold of him..well anyway thanks for reading this and if you can and have time will you please anwser this and tell me what you think is going on.. thanks and please no mean anwsers..
2006-10-01 20:03:24 · 10 answers · asked by Brittany 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
ok so you all are telling me i am not a failure but when i read those anwsers it hurts to know he could have moved on or he is too sad to talk to me I am sad too but it would be better to talk to him then sit here and cry for him,..I am young though I am only a teenager and I know I have a life ahead of me but this really threw me and him off he moved with only a little bit of time for me and him to spend together felt like not enough..He moved to colorado and I live in tecas so yes thats far away..anyway I dont know what to do other than to move on or just wait for him.. I really really like him ..I guess im just confused..anyway night guys and thanks for all the help..MACK
2006-10-01 20:29:33 · update #1
First off, relax. It's obvious you care but perhaps he's just adjusting to his new surroundings. You're not a failure, you're young. You're not getting married - get out and live your life.
I'm sure you miss him, but your life can't stop because of that.
It's no one's fault he moved, but for him not to answer you should clue you in that YOU'VE GIVEN IT A SHOT.
He owes you an apology - and you need to get on with your life and be happy.
Good luck.
2006-10-01 20:14:38 · answer #1 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Firstly if your bf respected you he would make an effort to respond to you. The fact he is avoided you may mean he needs time to reflect and consider his options.
You should not feel like a failure many people will walk in and out of your life only those who leave a lasting print will stay. Take time out for your self you have your whole life ahead of you don't let him drag you down rise above this and move forward with your life.
You may find www.blifted.com useful.
2006-10-02 03:13:11 · answer #2 · answered by Journey 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
When people move away their life changes. You haven't failed him and he almost certainly doesn't hate you (as long as you parted on good terms). He's probably just moving a new direction in life. It's nothing against you, but people grow apart. You should start looking out for yourself and moving on as well. Just keep the good memories.
2006-10-02 03:36:39 · answer #3 · answered by Adrianna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, don't blame yourself for anything if you did nothing wrong. i don't think he hates you at all, but sorry to say i do think he doesn't want to talk to you, but there can be many reasons for that. could be because he feels that a long distance relationship won't work, and it might hurt to much for him to talk to you. or it can be that...this might hurt....he has moved on, maybe even a new gf...sorry. either way, you should try to move on too. you are young, you will find many other great guys. good luck.
2006-10-02 03:15:43 · answer #4 · answered by rt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has obviously changed his phone number and changed his email address or he just doesn't want to talk to you but you shouldn't blame yourself. i don't think he hates you. if he did he probably would have told you to leave him alone if he didn't change his contact details but if you don't hear from him in the next week i say you afre probably better off moving on and forgetting about him. you obviously don't mean that much to him
2006-10-02 03:15:31 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems to me he is avoiding you.Sorry.I think if he wanted to keep in contact with you he would .Has he called you or anything? It may hurt but it is time to forget and move on.Good luck in your future.
2006-10-02 03:07:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well distance is a hard thing to deal with.. how far did he move? but dont over do it with trying to get a hold of him.. he might be bz and want space or something...
2006-10-02 03:09:40 · answer #7 · answered by chicksdsk8er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, stop blaming yourself. If you have done all that you can to contact
him, then the ball is in his court.
If he wants to contact you then he will. If not, then move on.
2006-10-02 03:07:06 · answer #8 · answered by Rebecca C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for him sometime. Try to search for his contact if you could not try to fine another one. If you couldnt i will be obliged.
2006-10-02 03:29:30 · answer #9 · answered by saz 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems he has clearly moved on, you should do the same!
2006-10-02 03:38:37 · answer #10 · answered by ~*Jenny*~ 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋