My friend Ryan just got married. He asked me out a few times a few years ago and I wasnt interested but we have remained good friends. At his wedding we were talking and he said to me "I can't think of anyone who is good enough for you". What did he mean by this? Was he having a go at me because I turned him down or was he paying me a compliment?
2006-10-01 20:01:57 · 14 answers · asked by crts_kaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
yeah for sure he was paying u a compliment.why worry,,juz njoy ur life,,he is married now,contact wid him,talk2him nicely remain as gud frndz only...BEST LUCK!
2006-10-01 20:40:10 · answer #1 · answered by ur frnd 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He was more than paying you a compliment! More specifically what he was telling you was that he settled for the new wife. Hate to sound so blunt, but that's the way it is. A guy is only going to accept no so many times before he moves on to someone who is going to say yes. Just because he moved on to someone who would say yes doesn't mean he doesn't want you, it just mean she said yes. Has to kinda make you wonder how it would have all played out and would he be married had you gave him a shot.
2006-10-01 20:08:09 · answer #2 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be careful about this so called "compliment". It might be nothing but it can be a sign that this friend Ryan has a crush on you or who knows?
I suggest to keep a distance and never find yourself in a situation that can create a romantic atmosphere.
Hope this can help. Good Luck!!!!
2006-10-01 20:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by marque1717 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
depends on the tone he used. But since it wasnt obviously a rude remark, I'd say it was a compliment. He's just telling you not to settle for second best. Find the perfect guy for you.
2006-10-01 20:06:56 · answer #4 · answered by There can only be one - (ANSWER) 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's all in the tone and context. If you were invited to his wedding, he probably likes you, but it's also possible it was a bit of both.
It may be commentary on your being picky, but not in a harsh or unkind way. Personally, I admire selectivity- it shows character (so long as it isn't superficial).
2006-10-01 20:06:14 · answer #5 · answered by Blake R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it was a compliment. he is saying that no one is is good enough as in no one should have you because you are too good for them.
2006-10-01 20:04:48 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
he was just trying to be a good friend.... well now hes married soo that should give u a big answer there.... and he just wants the best for you thats all...
2006-10-01 20:04:42 · answer #7 · answered by chicksdsk8er 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not good.
it sounds like he put you up on a pedistal and never felt good enough to handle you - which means, he probably still loves you.
2006-10-01 20:04:05 · answer #8 · answered by happy g 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an insult to me !
2006-10-01 20:04:56 · answer #9 · answered by g_man 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
His complement seems genuine.
2006-10-01 20:03:32 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋