My sister does not want me to see my boyfriend as it is her friend and mum doesnt say much as she doesnt want to get involved. When I am doing things with my boyfriend should I tell them about it. I feel like I have to sneak around but I dont want to rub it in my sister's face either. What do I do? Am I worrying too much?
2006-10-01 19:58:05 · 8 answers · asked by crts_kaz 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
just want to know why your sister doesn't want to see your bf if he is her friend? do they have something between them that you don't know? or does she know something about him that she just couldn'e tell you? whatever the reason is, i think you have the right to know. you don't have to tell them everything you do with your bf. you have some things that is best kept between you and your bf. well you can't force your mom to get involved. but maybe when things get very complicated, she should.
talk to your sister first. find out what's her reason for not wanting to see your bf. it's not good that your sister has something against your relationship with him.
2006-10-01 20:16:24 · answer #1 · answered by Coolitz 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You and your bf has to sit your sister down and tell her this is how its gonna be (after all, she not your mother, so theirs no need to be sneaking around). And if she really cares about you being happy, she'll understand, just give her time to get use to it.
2006-10-02 03:11:35 · answer #2 · answered by helpful friend 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your sister sounds jealous that her friend chose you to be his girlfriend and she is only a friend. If you really like him and he likes you then tell your sister to grow up and get a life of her own.
2006-10-02 03:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by wickedly_funny66 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't worry about what your sister says. its you that you should make happy. it seems like your sister is jealous. she will just have to deal with it. as long as she is acting like this, i wouldn't tell them anything because they don't want to hear it.
2006-10-02 03:01:12 · answer #4 · answered by anonymous 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all I'd have to know how old you and your sister are before I could make any sort of assessment.
2006-10-02 03:02:17 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it sounds like youre sister may like him more than a friend. i would talk to her about it. tell her you love her and you don't want to hurt her but you also care for your boyfriend and you'd really like to be able to talk to her about him like sisters do.but if she cant handle hearing about it then you'll talk to your best friend instead.But if she comes clean and says she does like him more than a friend you'r going to have to decide how important he is to you and decide from there. if he means allot to you then your sis is going to have to live with it.but i don't see things being to comfy at home for awhile.
2006-10-02 03:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by sunninsandi 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tackle your sister..
2006-10-02 03:06:26 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you love this guy stop worrying and tell you sis about it, unless she knows some dirt that would hurt you.
2006-10-02 03:00:14 · answer #8 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋