II am a sexy attractive wife of 10 years.First 5 years had great sex, I pursued him more than he did me.Now husband very rarely wants to have sex.when we do have sex more often than not he cannot get or keep erection.He tells me he does not jerk off,but has very little *** if any after at least a 3 week period of no sex.He will get a hardon when he has a fantasy of f*** my backdoor,even though I wont allow him to do so,he wishes I would.He has alot of women friend's but no close married male friends.At time's he will talk and say thing's about male actor's and singers.example that's my boy or yea he's a sexy one.He loves to watch Raw and other wrestling men.Will stay up late to watch a wrestling match before going to bed, even if he has to get up early.The few time's he will get horney on a monday night after watching Raw, or tuesday night after his men's bowling league.He was also locked up for 3 years 20 years a go.He smiles and will say being gay is nasty,if I tease about a b/f
2006-10-01 19:35:58 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
he could be sounds kinda like it but about that rear thing most guys wants to try that there is nothing to it. Just try different postions and maybe try porno tapes you can try websites on this subject askdr.drew.com is a good one to ask and maybe you can find out what are some of his fantasy and that will tell you something too. but the rear thing i would not to much worry about that but those other things i kinda would. and maybe try to get friends who are married around your area.
2006-10-01 19:44:41 · answer #1 · answered by knowssignlanguage 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have dated to men who were bi and I can tell u this much most straight men don't notice how good looking other men are on television or anywhere else much less get turned on watching them do anything. My bi exes would however every once in while mention another man's apperance and that sort of thing. If he is not having much sex with u and is now making anal an issue have u ever considered that maybe he is seeing another man? I don't want to be offensive but one of my exes was seeing a man while he was seeing me and what ur describing is what led to me finding out.
2006-10-01 20:54:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Based on what you have written there is no way to draw the conclusion that he is bi. From what you said he may just be in a rut after 10 years with you. It sounds like he has asked you to try a few things in the bedroom and you have turned him down, and maybe off. He may take your lack of interest as rejection and he may be bored with you. Also, if he is masturbating a lot he might be too embarrassed to admit it. And hey, a lot of guys watch pro wrestling... he watches it late at night because that is when it airs. Of course you are there and living it but I think you are really reaching here. Maybe when he is out bowling all the other men talk about their women and all of the things that they would like to do with their women... he gets all wound up and can't wait to get home to you! It is all in how you look at it! Maybe you should try talking to him... what do you think? Good Luck.
2006-10-01 19:51:18 · answer #3 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
my sister was married to her husband in airforce 17 years to find he was gay and had been cheating on her with a man a long time .how she found out she ordered a spy for the net and busted him ,he now still lives with his lover and she divorced him fast .you would have never thought he was ,I have found alot of men are and try to hide behind a wife .this is gross but talk about men in bed see if he gets really turned on and your question is answered .sorry
2006-10-01 19:45:11 · answer #4 · answered by Holly 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why don't you just ask him? After 10 yrs you know if he will be honest or not.
If that is not an option hire a PI, or follow him yourself, see what he does.
Not that I think it is a big deal, you sure will if he gives you a STD from boinking some guy.
Besides, it is not fair to either of you if he is.
2006-10-01 19:41:44 · answer #5 · answered by jv1104 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes that's alot of sings pointing to him being a homosexual and not the anal sex part because many men want to do that. Please Please hire someone to investigate him because if he is indeed bumping uglies with another man it can mean your life and take yourself to a doctor have test run make sure your clean even before you find out if he is or isn't
2006-10-01 20:26:45 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Sound like he is bisexual, but you need more information about his activities to help you decide. You should talk to him about this again, and watch him carefully, as he answers you.
2006-10-01 19:49:42 · answer #7 · answered by RY 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Just let him stick it in your ***, Hes probably bored and if you allow anal he will be all over you. Trust me .
2006-10-05 16:33:49 · answer #8 · answered by emceedusty 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
thats what I think .. u have a gay man
2006-10-01 20:09:43 · answer #9 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think we got us a gay one
2006-10-01 19:47:40 · answer #10 · answered by chrisarea_99 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋