OK..it started out like this..I was walking home from TAFE as I do every morning and I walk past a nursing home every morning.ok..Then this man called Eddy started eyeing me off.Then on my way home he winked at me and invited me for a cup of coffee in his unit.I went inside as I was very tired and needed a coffee and I was wearing a very low top and I have a large cleavage..so he started staring at it and then when he went to get me some more coffee I noticed that he had an erection.He told me he was lonely and was divorced.I found out that he was a tutor in maths (retired now) and my neice needed tutoring.The prices were high so I asked him if he could tutor my neice in enchange for some "company".We agreed and he tutored my neice Kelly for a month and I contued on giving him his "company" for a year.Last month I found out that i'm pregnat..I didnt know he could still ejeculate.anyway.I am confused.Both of my parents live overseas HELP!
2006-10-01 19:09:22 · 28 answers · asked by lip_smaka_hotty 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Ok... first of all, you didn't even know the guy. And second of all, isn't it obvious that anyone will stare when you have a low top? I'm not trying to be mean but did you take sex ed? Didn't you know that men produce sperm like... for his whole life? This is really your own decision if you want to abort the baby or not. But think about it clearly and let that guy know.
2006-10-01 19:16:15 · answer #1 · answered by qxsnoexp 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How did you not realize he was ejaculating? What does having your parents living overseas have anything to do with this? I can't imagine anyone would so desperately need a tutor for their niece that they would have sex multiple times with a wrinkly old man. That's dumber than Anna Nicole Smith! Now, as for advice. I would either consider marrying Eddy so you can raise the child together or carry the baby to term and give it up for adoption to someone who can better provide for the baby, since you cannot even afford a tutor for your niece. And by the way, your niece better be getting A's!
2006-10-02 02:18:50 · answer #2 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
The two of you were together for a year, there has got to have been some amount of chemistry, the logical options in this case would be:
1 tell him about ur pregnancy, ask his views about it, see if the two of you cannot take your relationship to the next level
2 if not, then search your soul, do you think you can take on the repsonsibilty of single motherhood, but remember its a huge commitment
3 if no, then I guess u will have to get an abortion.
Don't feel like a whore, honey we all make mistakes, forgive yourself, pray for forgiveness from God above, and believe me He will forgive you.
2006-10-02 02:22:56 · answer #3 · answered by virgodoll 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense, but it sounds like math knowledge doesn't run in your family. First off you traded him 1 month of tutoring for 1 year of sex. Then he gave you a lifetime of regret. Doesn't add up to me. However, harms already done and a life is a life. SO, poor baby is gonna have a really old father and you need to tell your parents they are going to be grandparents. But you should be ashamed of yourself for doing such a dirty act.
2006-10-02 04:10:47 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I think you should tell him that you are with with child. This is a hard decision so think hard on it. Dont make a hasty decision. Think through it and evaluate all of your options. Share this news with your family so people who care about you can give you some feedback. Dont feel bad or beat yourself up. Whats done is done. All you can do is move foward and make the best of this situation. Praying for you and hope that you come to a resolution that you can be comfortable with and live with.
2006-10-02 02:21:56 · answer #5 · answered by ashley72 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
To all the people who suggested get a divorce; go f*** yourself.
You should have the baby. Do you have any feelings for your friendly tutor? Let him know that you are pregnant and you're going to need his support. If he is any kind of man he will help you. I would speak to him first and then let your parents know. I would not tell them you where having sex in exchange for a tutor.
2006-10-02 02:26:08 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should fix your personality. The same broken part of you that thinks whoring for Math tutoring is a good thing is the same broken part of you that thinks you should turn to Yahoo! Answers for advice at such a critical time.
You have about a month to decide on an abortion or not. FIX YOURSELF FIRST.
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2006-10-02 02:18:05 · answer #7 · answered by robabard 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
did you enjoy his company?
does he enjoy urs? can you see a relationship?
if the answers are no then you need an abortion..
its a sin but you dont want to bring this baby to have no father..
and could you support this kid?
im really sorry about it
2006-10-02 02:16:35 · answer #8 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like a pretty fair exchange. He game math instruction and you worked on his organ. Enjoy being a mother
2006-10-02 02:17:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi,, is this for real or a joke??? sounds like a story line for penthouse magazine,,,, the ones that at the end say,,, name with held by request,,, lol
good luck,,,
2006-10-02 02:14:36 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋