Haven't seen my b/f in almost 6mo b/c he lives in another state. He promised to come see me this month but one day before him catching his flight he calls to tell me he can't come b/c his business partner mother died and he was not coming. I was so excited to see him and now very very disappointed. After that happened i stopped talking/texting him. Is it wrong to be mad at him?
2006-10-01 18:49:41 · 8 answers · asked by iwannano 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
It is like a double edge sword.
Yes, because you and him haven't seen each other. It seems like that should be priority.
No, because death is out of your control. If this mother did die. Wouldn't you want support if you was in the business partner's shoes?
2006-10-01 19:01:41 · answer #1 · answered by Dwayne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you dont trust him and with good reason. A long distance relationship hardly holds on. Most men will cheat in a long distance relationship. If he was into keeping the relationship alive he would of hopped on a plane long before now. Go with your gut.
2006-10-02 19:02:03 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can understand you being upset about not seeing your boyfriend, but is it his fault someone died?? When my dad died, I was off from work for a week. Alot of my coworkers were put out by this & had to work a lil harder because of it. I was so glad that my coworkers understood & never complained or whined. It gave me one less thing to worry about at such a horrible time.
2006-10-02 01:56:38 · answer #3 · answered by yobaby 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
YEAH, he is your boyfriend therefore you should support him, do you think he killed the woman just so he couldn't come see you. He was probably close to his partner, if your best friends mother died woulnd't you be there to support her? You should be a little more considerate and not be so self-centered and selfish.
2006-10-02 01:52:28 · answer #4 · answered by Barbara C 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yea... if he was helping his partner because his mom died...why didn't you just go see him...your mad because he's a decent guy?
i mean i know that long distance relationships are hard but if you don't think he's cheating or something then you are being really unfair...you should have just gotten his ticket switched to you...and don't be mad because he has a job....
2006-10-02 02:02:32 · answer #5 · answered by bunny 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm od you think he is lying?
maybe you should get a flight and go and see if it is really true....
and i mean...how important is this business partner of his ?
b/c i mean is he there for support or to keep the business?
2006-10-02 01:52:48 · answer #6 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No.Your getting angry with him is a sure sign of intensity of your feelings for him.So, what's next? Cool down and call him to say that you miss him and ask about his next visit,which is more than overdue. good luck.
2006-10-02 01:58:50 · answer #7 · answered by brkshandilya 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he has a good excuse you should not get mad. Unless u think he's lying.
2006-10-02 01:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by alexeytering@sbcglobal.net 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋