I have a fear of death as well as a fear of failure as well as my other problems if you have been in the psychology section.......how can i reverse this so that i can just enjoy my life
2006-10-01 18:04:55 · 12 answers · asked by anonymous 27 4 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
i'll probably ask the question againg because i didnt quiet get the answer i was looking for.......and its my fault i didnt make myself clear.......its not that im scared of dying its that im afraid of dying so i have this fear of doing stuff that i will see the benifits in the future like school work.....so i just live my life by doing stuff that i see quick results like working out or just having fun drinking
2006-10-04 16:44:39 · update #1
Well were all going to die. but enjoy the hear and now moment. maybe your fear is more about where do you go after this life. Try getting some books to help you deal with any fears you may have about life after death. you will see thats its a wonderful place. and there's nothing to fear.
In the mean time take it day by day. and enjoy things around you . but do get to the nitty gritty of why you have this fear. and then you can solve and over come whats eating at your subconcious.
good luck
2006-10-01 18:12:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
We were all born to die at some point. Death doesn't have to hurt, for some it is a relief to go. Just don't think about the things you cannot chance and have no control over, focus on your life and enjoy every day. Make plans for every day which should include some fun time as well. Read a good book, engage in your favorite hobby or sports. Don't waist any more time thinking like this. Live one day at a time. Take some meditation classes to get some inner peace.
2006-10-01 18:13:20 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Death is something that will strike us all. The most important thing is to enjoy your life to the best of your ability now. If you fear death, you should love life. You should live every day as if it is your last because it just might be. So live today.... Don't worry about what will come tomorrow. Do something to put a smile on your face today... Use life up for all that it has to offer. You only get one life and you don't know how long you will be here. GO LIVE NOW...
2006-10-01 18:09:42 · answer #3 · answered by Miss Tee 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to come to grips that you can die some day, there is not much we can do about that, Fear of failure. Sounds as if you have set ur sefl some lofty goals, set them to something more realistic and u don't set urself up for failure...Just live life day to day, don't dread the future, you are the one that controls what happend to you. So lighten up and live life to its fullest... I was the same way until it was in my early 20's. So that was a long time to be that way. Now not scared of much at all,the biggest one is death. I am rady for it when it happens and I live life as one should to the fullest every day giving thanx for just being alive yet another day
2006-10-01 18:17:50 · answer #4 · answered by back2skewl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Fear of death does not cure death.Many people have been have been afraid of death before you. It has not stopped them from dying. Make the most of your life; you have nothing to lose.
2006-10-02 01:33:35 · answer #5 · answered by Helios100 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We die when it is our time..so dont think about it. Live life to the fullest, even if you think "Tomorrow could be my last day."
Your fear of death should actually HELP you live an exciting life if you always had the mindset, "Tomorrow could be the last day."
But death is not to be feared...it is part of the plan. Everyone dies.
2006-10-01 18:09:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think that you need someone in psychology section to answer you. It's so clear dear. Believing in God. The one who gave you the breath in this life, everything has been written by God: when & where you born, your parents, the people who you will meet, your everything including when & where you will die. So leave it to him & live your day because the day which you lose you can't compensate. Good Luck
2006-10-01 19:55:08 · answer #7 · answered by Elegy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Hi, so glad you asked. God did not give us a spirit of fear but a spirit of power. If you will accept Jesus Christ into your life as Lord and Savior and truly believe and began to live you're life for him, these fears will began to fade.
2006-10-01 18:31:07 · answer #8 · answered by SuperSkinny 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yeah Miss Tee is right, but don't forget to save money for your funeral...just in case.
2006-10-01 18:12:24 · answer #9 · answered by anobangtanong 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just don't think about it!!!....Just think that is a normal thing that we all have to go through...like growing up or even like the night after the day...if you think it's just normal, eventually you'll forget about it...
2006-10-01 18:14:10 · answer #10 · answered by Adrian B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋