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virgin girl has too much pain on first intercourse and bleeding also or what?

2006-10-01 17:47:58 · 13 answers · asked by AskMe 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting Adolescent

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This really does depend on the women and how you go about it. Without trying to sound smug, I have a fair few virgins and there are a few things you can do to make the whole thing go smoothly:

1. It's here first time, go gently; She may know the in's and out's of sex but that is not enough. Hold back a little.

2. When you first go up, let her get accustomed to you. I know for some of you other guys out there thats going to be hard as all you want is to give it to her once your there but trust me; give her the time and she'll get past the pain and start feeling you.

3. When you go up the first time; DON'T PULL OUT! This can hurt her even more and in some cases makes the women feel like your replused by her.

4. Only start back up when she is okay, and make sure she is; Some girls will say their okay just so you'll still sleep with them. Hopefully your man enough to realise this is wrong.

5. Make it as comfortable as possible; use a bed. I know that you can't always help where it happens; believe me I do (Two counts of indescent exposure in public here), but you should really make the effort when a virgin is involved. You've got to remember that as her first; you're always going to play an important role in her sexual history and experience; Don't mess it up for her just so you can get your end off!

2006-10-02 01:03:51 · answer #1 · answered by felixrpg 2 · 10 0

Since its her first time be very gentle and go slow, no need to be an animal and start pounding away. When u enter her she may or may not experience terrible pain.

Girls who do sports such as badminton and others who have masturbated mite have already opened up their hymen and so they wont feel pain while other girls can.

As soon as u enter, the hymen will get ruptured and there will be blood flowing out from it.

Jus remember go slow to make her nite a rememberable and enjoyable one

2006-10-03 08:05:11 · answer #2 · answered by Sandmax 2 · 0 0

Depends on if you are an animal or a man. If you're an animal only intent on what you want yeah, she's going to hurt, no doubt about it. If you're a man and can go slow and are taking care to make sure you don't hurt her you may just succeed. I did.

But yes, despite your best efforts she may still have a little discomfort and some bleeding as you do have to tear her hymen, unless she has engaged in some sort of activity that has already torn it one way or another.

2006-10-01 18:41:42 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

From my experience, I felt hard pressure, then a small amount of pain. Some girls expereince extreme pain and some bleeding. This is all because the hymen is being ripped "aka popping her cherry".

2006-10-01 19:16:31 · answer #4 · answered by Purple_Rain_Drops 1 · 0 0

most girls who lose their virginity normally do feel pain because their heman is breaking (layer of like skin in the entance of their vagina) and some girls who use tampons have normally broken themselfs so it wont hurt as much and girls with their heman normally bleed after sex and then maybe a day or so after that......

2006-10-01 18:13:16 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1 0

a virgin girl does experience pain 1st time but for every girl it is a different amount my m8 told me it was really really painfull but i experienced a bit of pain but nothin to bad also she does tend to bleed a little because her hymen is breaking

2006-10-01 20:36:01 · answer #6 · answered by mummy to 3 miracles 5 · 0 0

Yes it hurts and it might also bleed. First time always hurts. Just be gentle.

2006-10-02 05:22:48 · answer #7 · answered by shorty 2 · 0 0

yea and shes not a virgin anymore

2006-10-02 04:34:44 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

You should not be having sex at all. It would be a shame to allow you to breed.

2006-10-01 23:09:57 · answer #9 · answered by Prez 2 · 0 0

Silent but deadly they say Quiet girls are so good ine bed that is what they say.

2006-10-04 00:42:10 · answer #10 · answered by Rafael 1 · 0 0

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