We both wanted each other so one night, when I spent the nite at my best friends house, he snuck to her room and said he needed help with something. As soon as I left her room he started kissng me. Then he brought me to his room and we had dirrty sex. Ever since, he does everything 4 me. We have had sex about 23 times, all good times. I was a virgen. I have strong sexual desires 4 him and my best friend is having a bad time dealing with her steps dads and moms divorce. What should I do? Keep in mind I have liked him since I was 7 or 8
Serious answers only please
2006-10-01 17:41:48 · 26 answers · asked by Justme 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
u crazy girl
2006-10-01 22:52:06 · answer #1 · answered by Photographer 6 · 4⤊ 2⤋
Don't get any delusions that this is anything more than sex... a relationship will not come from this. You are a rebound and way too young to have any kind of a meaningful relationship. While you are thinking about saving for school...he is thinking about saving for retirement. There will be nothing as far as anything in common and each other's friends will never accept the other. So you have 2 choices:
1- continue to have sex and enjoy it for what it is...SEX
2- end it, say nothing and continue your friendship... cause she will NEVER forgive you for this and she will tell everyone that you are a homewrecking slut and they will agree (sorry, but it's true). Lastly if you are under 18, stepdad WILL go to jail and then NO ONE will ever talk to you again.
Have fun with this decision, but I think it's obvious if you value your friendship
2006-10-01 17:51:04 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
How old are you? If you are at least over 20, I say go for it. An older man will know what he is doing alright. If you are under age 20, then, sweetie, I am not so sure that it is a good idea. Of course, what is the difference between 19 and 20? I can certainly see why you feel the attraction. Whatever you do, do NOT fall in love.
2006-10-01 17:49:33 · answer #3 · answered by Gorgeoustxwoman2013 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
How old are you? If you are a minor under 18 this is called rape.
How dare a man take your virginity away in this manner.
The fact that you were a guest in his home and his daughters best friend says he has stepped over boundaries. As a parent he should know better.
Why does he have his step daughter in his home and why is your best friend not with her mother? Maybe he is having sex with your best friend also.
He may be a real sicko, I think you should have your sleepovers in your own home.
If you are a minor you should discuss this with your mother. Predators like this need to be taken off the streets.
2006-10-01 17:51:59 · answer #4 · answered by easinclair 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
this doesn't really seem like a good situation. for one, it sounds like you are underage. that makes it bad from a legal standpoint and you should stop immediately.
assuming you are over the age of consent, think about how your best friend would feel if she found out. you say she is having a hard time dealing with the divorce. she might blame you for it if she knew of the relationship.
and think of the stepdad. it sounds like he is on the rebound, coming out of a divorce. he might just be using you--an obviously younger girl whom he knows is attracted to him--to get over his breakup, possibly to get back at his ex, and to fulfill his sexual needs that he's not getting anymore. do you really want to be the rebound girl?
do you really want to have a secret relationship? if you have to keep it hidden, then you know there almost certainly must be something wrong with it.
i know i don't have the full details but from what you've given us here, it sounds like you should stop. if he won't be the mature one and put an end to it, then you need to.
2006-10-01 17:50:42 · answer #5 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I understand all the attention is great but you and I know this is a rebound thing, you said he is going thru a divorce. And you have to think of what this will do to your best friend. This I truly know. When my husband cheated on me I didn't want to admit it but I knew, and later he left me for her. It didn't last, she became preg. and he left her also. so now he doesn't have me or her and this new baby out there that he never sees. There a consequences to all that we do. And through life lessons I have found that the ones who are always there for you unconditionally are your family and your true friends. Good Luck.
2006-10-01 17:57:02 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
ok hon first of all if youve liked him since you were seven that right there should tell you something, you have to think (im assuming you havent told yer friend) how it would feel if she knew
or if your parents knew
would you sit down and ask your mother about this
you have to think of it this way
if its something you have to lie about than you shouldnt be doing it
and i would say no way
that could hurt alot of people
its just a bad situation
besides it might land you on jerry then everyone would call you bad names and stuff and that wouldnt be good
id stop it immeadiatley
besides its not like hes going to marry you (probably) if he wanted to be married he wouldnt be divorcing
2006-10-01 17:58:25 · answer #7 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Ok, how old are you? If you are underage you need to stop!! Actually, you just need to stop! You aren't being a very good friend having an affair with her step dad! Regardless of liking him or not, he sounds like he took advantage of you and that's way wrong!!
2006-10-01 17:48:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Try to think up a better storyline next time. If this isn't a fabrication, I suggest that you stop sleeping with a married man and ask your mother to give you the "good touch, bad touch" lecture.
2006-10-01 17:46:08 · answer #9 · answered by medellia1984 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Jerry Springer show next week
your age also makes a differences if your under 18 that jail bate and he can go to jail
2006-10-01 17:45:59 · answer #10 · answered by robert899295 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
be carefull with what you do. You might end up break up with your best friend. make no mistake, it will destoy you. do it when you friend is not around and not in the same house or same roof. it might be too late, she might already know what is going on. make a deal with him help with your friend and her step dad. if that doesn't help you can have sex with me, and dump him.
2006-10-01 17:51:54 · answer #11 · answered by Tal Rasha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋