Hello, I'm 46, she's 49, happily married for over 14 years, so-so sex life. I would like my wife to stop shaving everything including legs and armpits, just until next spring, to endulge a fetish of mine. She doesn't usually wear clothing that would expose these areas, so that shouldn't be a problem. She has complained in the past about dry skin during the winter and I've told her, without a trace of sarcasm, to stop shaving but she keeps on anyway. Do any of you have any ideas how I could go about getting her to stop? Please, only serious replies. 10 points will go to the answer I consider most likely to suceed.
Thanks in advance.
2006-10-01 17:24:18 · 25 answers · asked by spongeworthy_us 6 in Health ➔ Women's Health
Tell her why you want her to stop. Explain that it's something you really want to try. It might help to offer to help fulfill one of her fantasies.
Sit down one night, have a nice dinner, glass of wine, make it romantic, and start talking about fantasies, hers first. If one of hers appeals to you, offer to give it a shot. Make it a bit of a game, where you each get to explore and try new things. make sure you re-assure her that you love her and think that she is beautiful the way she is, but that this would be a big turn on for you.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 17:33:32 · answer #1 · answered by nymphetamine1978 6 · 4⤊ 0⤋
It is definitely going depend on how she feels about hi-gene. American women have this thought branded into them as you teenagers that it is proper to shave your arm pits and legs. The best approach I see is to just approach your wife about is openly. The worst thing she can say is no. Explain why you would like her to not shave. Tell her that in Europe most of the women do not shave. It really was bizarre when I was over seas in the navy on the french Riviera and all these beautiful women with unshaven legs and pits. For me it is a turn off but then everyone is entitled to what they like. In fact I wish the opposite of my wife. I wish she would shave is some areas she never has. We have been married 15 years. Here I am giving you advise and I never mustered up enough balls to say anything to my wife. Anyway hope she is game for your suggestion.
2006-10-01 17:31:31 · answer #2 · answered by Mark67 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having hair in the legs and the armpits for a woman is really considered dirty. She will look dirty and not conscious of hygeine, EVEN IF she takes a bath and keeps herself clean.
Wearing clothes that do not expose the armpits and the legs is not an excuse to have hair. You have to let her feel clean just by letting her shave.
IF she agreed not to shave, just to satisfy your fetish, MAYBE make a deal with her for the shortest time possible that she can accept NOT to shave (say two or three weeks or one month - hair then will be visible and long enough to be seen within five to ten feet away). And tell her too that its a one-time deal (unless she wants to do it again). Make sure too that the deal comes with a prize that she can't refuse (like a two-day vacation in her favorite place or a set of jewelry.)
2006-10-01 17:26:07 · answer #3 · answered by Busy Diyosa 5 · 1⤊ 2⤋
Tell her you have a Fetish about French women and Rosie O'Donnell. You want her to adjust her personal habits around this charade. Your increased ardor will drive her wild and she'll forget all about the hairy parts, not to mention the extra money saved from not buying shaving supplies she can use to buy clothes that hide the hairy parts. What woman wouldnt go for that!?
2006-10-01 17:33:12 · answer #4 · answered by missourim43 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thank God i don't have a husband with a furry again. Who needs a gorilla! it truly is disgusting. Any guy that has that on his again could bypass have it waxed off, why could any woman could shave some guy's again, do we shave his face? i don't think of so.
2016-11-25 21:55:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say if you have tried asking her or not. But if you haven't, just remember to be honest. Tell her about you fetish, and just maybe it will make her more comfortable opening up about one of her own fetishes. tell her all the pros about her not shaving.. honestly i think i would be ecstatic if my fiance told me it was OK to not shave, women really do hate doing it, but we got to keep our men happy. Good luck to you
2006-10-01 17:28:17 · answer #6 · answered by sameileen19 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In some countries, shaving is forbidden. They believe it takes away from your natural beauty. I don't think, however, that it is your choice on whether or not she shaves. Woman are suppose to have a sense of pride about themselves. We are suppose to carry ourselves in a manner in which we hold our head up high, stand up straight, mostly being beautiful on the inside and the out. I think you need to continue to allow your wife to shave and wear her on your arm like a precious gem.
2006-10-02 02:38:08 · answer #7 · answered by ok2beme80 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just sit her down and have a heart to heart, tell her how you really feel. Those other tI'mes you have told her, I'm sure she thought you were kidding. If you tell her your reasons im sure she will stop, who knows she might even get into it and indulge your fetish more often.
2006-10-01 17:28:31 · answer #8 · answered by Doug 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
try sitting down and talking with her about it. give her your side as well as emotions. im sure if she loves you and knows how u really feel it will work out. if not grow a beard or something she doesnt like and stop buying good razors. get the $2 ones that cut and annoy.
2006-10-01 17:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would try to make some kind of a deal with her
i cant really say tho
my husband and i have the exact opposite problem
try bribery we usually respond to that
id do anything for my old man to rub me to sleep at night, use what she likes and be real sappy
thats the best i can do
good luck with that one
2006-10-01 17:28:05 · answer #10 · answered by jes 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋