I really like this girl and were friends and all, but every time she's alone i dont have the guts to talk to her, i really like her and want to go out with her, but how do i tell her without being afraid?
2006-10-01 16:42:25 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
try to see the big picture. she is just one of the many girls you will like in the long run, so go for it. if she doesn't like you back you'll get over it and soon you'll be attracted to someone else. good luck.
2006-10-01 16:44:47 · answer #1 · answered by ndyou 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
As I've been told, fear is evil. Fear is no good. So don't be afraid. Approach the subject by telling her something funny, like a silly joke and strike up a conversation in a neutral zone. Try to incorporate into the conversation that perhaps she'd like to go to get something to eat, etc.then maybe the time will be right after you've spent a few hours together. You could just tell her that you asked her out specifically to tell her how you feel. She might like you too, who knows. You won't until you make an effort..............
2006-10-01 23:49:38 · answer #2 · answered by silhouette 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What r u afraid of, is she bearing a base ball bat or something?
She probably knows already, also just think, if u delay it further, someone might ask her out, and if u r still undecided, she might say yes. If all fails, try text messaging if both have mobile phones or cell phones as u call them in the us
2006-10-01 23:46:22 · answer #3 · answered by Yacine B 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your friends' already then ask her something that you already know what she will answer,like something about music or whatever she is into(act like you didnt know the answer)then talk about that for awhile ...then ask her if she would like to go out soon with you,but have a plan in mind first if she says yes,like a movie or something like that.Then later on tell her how you feel, if the date works out for you both.Good luck.
2006-10-01 23:52:49 · answer #4 · answered by Joan C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are afraid send her a note with someone, it worked with me, I used to be that way, if you do not trust nobody, try a relative, friend or sister, if you do not have nobody send her a letter or just deliver it yourself and put it in her mail box, locker, car etc. I used to compose silly poems and send to girls I liked, or you might prefer be anonymous but, is better to write your name because someone once stole my girl, it was my fault because I did not write my name so, the other guy assumed it was me.
2006-10-01 23:51:35 · answer #5 · answered by Armando 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
no u gotta just tell her cuz if u dont have the guts to tell her then u wont have the guts to ask her out, kiss her or do other things trust me ul regret it if u dont do it
2006-10-01 23:44:23 · answer #6 · answered by [tha kid] 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be a man! go talk to her...make her feel that u really like her n care for her.
2006-10-01 23:44:43 · answer #7 · answered by krazy k 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open your mouth, and repeat after me "hey ____(insert her name here) I really like you, more than a friend, but I've been too chicken to say it."
Just take a leap and do it!
the end.
2006-10-01 23:46:22 · answer #8 · answered by AmandaLayne 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell her. You can do it, I know you can. Visualize it beforehand, and she responds positive, and then do it. Best wishes.
2006-10-01 23:45:05 · answer #9 · answered by Rhonda 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
write a letter... put ur feeling into a piece of paper and give it to her.
2006-10-01 23:44:02 · answer #10 · answered by mierdurez 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋