Then I can't annoy anyone... So, how do I get rid of my friends without hurting their feelings... and how do I convince myself that I'm meant to be alone... and not bother anyone?
2006-10-01 16:40:05 · 18 answers · asked by Marie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Hey hun. Look, I know it is hard to believe right now, but you shouldnt be alone. Obviously if others could get hurt by you not being their friend, you do much more than annoy people. You are just hurting right now and not seeing all your good points. I gaurentee there are some. You are obviously an emotional and caring person. You need to stop worrying when people think you are "annoying" them....they dont realize your worth! Trust me, I have been there, this will all get better and everyone needs someone. Cheer up and wait for the sun to rise.
2006-10-01 16:49:49 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You sound like someone who is feeling very sad right now.
You aren't meant to be alone so there is no use in trying to convince yourself of that.
Please go now, & talk to an adult that you can trust to give you a sympathetic ear. If you can't think of one right now, then go as soon as you can, & talk with a councellor at your school, or one of your favorite teachers.
I believe that there is something going on in your life that you have no way to control. It is profoundly affecting your life, & you can't do a thing by yourself to change it, so that is very frustrating, & that is why you do things that cause you to think that you annoy others.
If you talk to someone about it, you will not only feel better, but you will also open the door to getting the help you may need.
If total strangers can care enough about you to answer your question, then you can be sure that someone who knows you will care enough to help you in a way that can make a difference for you.
Please take good care of yourself. YOU ARE WORTH IT!
2006-10-02 00:30:57 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is meant to be alone. It sounds like you have some self esteem issues. Everyone is annoying at some point, but you can control it and/or just ask your friends if they think you are annoying.
2006-10-01 23:41:43 · answer #3 · answered by Rawrrrr 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have friends then they obviously don't feel the same as you do. Take a few extra seconds to say something next time it will help you. Be a little less nosy and a little more observant.
2006-10-01 23:43:05 · answer #4 · answered by schlongy1969 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem like a very nice girl. You won't be alone forever. Look for someone that will build your confidence- anyone, co-worker, student, relative.
And Jesus is available to help
2006-10-01 23:48:04 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need to talk to someone. However, if you really want to get rid of your friends, an attitude like you have now will do it. I don't really think you want to do that though. Cheer up. Things will get better.
2006-10-01 23:43:21 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You were not meant to be alone. No one is meant to be alone and you can't convince yourself otherwise.
2006-10-01 23:42:46 · answer #7 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
think you are a human everyone has got friends even a worm does a cat or a dog everyone has got friends. just be your self and don't be sad to others then you will not be annoying and will have the best friends.
2006-10-01 23:43:25 · answer #8 · answered by RoxyChick30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No one is meant to be alone
2006-10-01 23:41:47 · answer #9 · answered by Photographer 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If people want to be your friend then you have no reason to try to get rid of them.
2006-10-01 23:45:45 · answer #10 · answered by BereaGirl 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋