I believe I annoy a lot of people. I don't try to. It makes me mad and I hate myself...
Why I'm I so annoying? I seem to always bother friends... Then I feel bad and say sorry and they say it's okay... but after awhile if they don't get mad at me for bothering them, they get mad at me for saying sorry all the time.
2006-10-01 16:37:57 · 21 answers · asked by Marie S 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
What do you mean by annoying? what exactly do you do that annoys them?
2006-10-01 16:44:32 · answer #1 · answered by Bibi 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In an earlier question you stated that you have an abusive father. You are not feeling too good about yourself right now, it's called "self loathing" & self loathing is a by-product of having been abused by a parent or guardian.
Your questions need to be answered by a professional councelor. You are not a bad person, you are just a normal person reacting to an angry home life. A councellor will help you work through your troubles in a caring & supportive way. You have been badly hurt emotionally. Talking to someone will help you start to heal.
2006-10-01 23:55:01 · answer #2 · answered by No More 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a habit of saying "I'm sorry" all the time. A good friend of mine said "Why do u always say that? Don't be sorry. You have no need to be sorry all the time."
Don't crawl before anyone! I learned that if I said something, I should stand behind it. If someone doesn't like it..oh well. It is OK to be you!
2006-10-01 23:50:51 · answer #3 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OK MARIE S, youve been on here few times....i know who u r now. i think u hv become neurotic. sigmond freud once said that people who r neurotic, are sexually fustrated. so this means u r paying too much attention at everone elses business but yours. so the reason u run ur mouth annoying people is because there is nothing in it to stop it. so get off this yahoo answers and asking stupid questions like....."oh my god, there sthis boy and then theres this other boy but the first boy likes me and the second boy i like but doesnt know i exist but then i like both and this girl says that i should blah blah blah blah..........oh wait am i like annoying cause all my friends hate me bacause they all like found out that i really dont like any of them and i rather be living all alone on a side of a cliff with my lavador retriever and white parakeet performing like yoga or something.....whew.....man im like tired of all this talking and my glasses keep falling off everytime i sneeze like steve erkell"
2006-10-02 00:10:29 · answer #4 · answered by Necat T 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you even figured out that you're annoying, it must be pretty bad. Either that or you're paranoid. Its up to you to figure that out. Are you constantly talking about yourself or just conversating normally when you think you're annoying? I have a friend like this, he always thinks he's annoying and he really is not, he's just depressed and afraid to scare his friends off.
2006-10-01 23:42:13 · answer #5 · answered by Heathertogo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How to Be More Popular
1. Ask, what do you do to annoy people?
2. Stop doing it.
2006-10-01 23:40:09 · answer #6 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that really sucks!!! you have a terrible self esteem problem it seems, hence your desire to feel excepted by others because you dont except yourself =(
i hope there is a way you can see beyond this. Have you ever considered therapy? in the long run, you have nothing to lose and so much to gain! love you my friend, you are one of a kind!
2006-10-01 23:42:03 · answer #7 · answered by natty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hey girl you don't seen really annoying but if you are just walk away from your friends for a while and think what yo are doing wrong and once you get the point how you are been then well you won't be after a while and then sometimes make goals for yourself not to be annoying.................................
2006-10-01 23:41:24 · answer #8 · answered by RoxyChick30 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like an identity crisis. If you can't like or tolerate yourself, then how can others do likewise. Lighten up for **** sake and enjoy your life. It's what we have for now, and is truly all too short, and shouldn't be wasted constantly judging yourself.
2006-10-01 23:45:08 · answer #9 · answered by ron k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well learn to quite down a little and dont bother them much.ok
2006-10-01 23:39:31 · answer #10 · answered by thisismyaccountokguys 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋