There is this girl at my friend's church who has been giving me dirty looks from day one. My friend even told me that she only talks to her when i'm around as if she is trying to get me jealous. The thing is, I have never said anything to this girl and she hasn't said anything to me. She really has no reason to hate me...she just does. Now the b*tch has her friends giving me dirty looks too. Honestly, I don't care that she doesn't like me because I don't even know her. It bothers me because it doesn't make sense.
2006-10-01 16:33:40 · 14 answers · asked by opaque_eggshell 2 in Social Science ➔ Sociology
She secretly admires you and is jealous of your ability to maintain a dignified element of identity. She'd prefer is she knew that you and she were pretty much on the same level.
Jealousy.
2006-10-02 04:55:51 · answer #1 · answered by Aan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The first answer is right. She got a note passed to her in science class from a guy who knew a guy who liked like the women who lives next door to you and the note said that you were no good. What a child. Here's what you do.... Ask her. just walk right up and say "hi there. I see you giving me dirty looks and I'd really like to know what your problem is but first tell me your name because I have no clue who you are."
2006-10-01 16:45:11 · answer #2 · answered by jymsis 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
When she looks at you with her dirty looks... smile back and look away or walk away if possible, perhaps she is jealous of you and doesn't have the maturity to see you in the right light. either way don't waste your time worrying about why she is the way she is. If she has no reason to not like you you have nothing to worry about.
2006-10-01 16:39:36 · answer #3 · answered by dnrmartin95 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is true that she doesnt even know you , she doesnt know anything about you , the good things about you , so what this is , is bad. she doesnt like you and thats it, you dont like her eitther because of the way she has acted , all you can do is ignore her until the time comes for you to exchange words , whatever words they may be .
all i can say is hate and jealousy are involved and its up to You how YOU are going to handle confrontation, hopefully you guys will end up talking and becoming friends , if not at least you know it wasnt you that started this . hate is strong
it makes you uncomfortable.so try not to hate , there are so many good things in this world than bullsh*t idiot b*tches that dont even know who you really are . educate yourself enjoy life and most of all be free , be who you want to be.
2006-10-01 16:50:19 · answer #4 · answered by paszionone@sbcglobal.net 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She could evny you. She could have heard that u were talking about her. You said u don't care if she doesn't like u, but if that was the case then u wouldn't be on here asking this question.If i were u i would pull her to the side and ask her what the problem is. Only she can tell u why she doesn't like u.
2006-10-01 16:53:17 · answer #5 · answered by omarion's mommy 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She's a girl. She is probably given you dirty looks because she heard a friend say that her cousin's sister's roommate saw someone who looked like you on a soap opera cheating on someone that looked like her (being the girl glaring at you) and she took it personally. It happens. Try making funny faces back, like puffing up your cheeks and crossing your eyes.
2006-10-01 16:37:26 · answer #6 · answered by miracol@sbcglobal.net 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
She is jealous of you, ignore it as long as is not violent, it may get worse but know it is her problem not yours. Do not get ugly back, I have a friend that is very beautiful so girls are mean to her, she knows its their problem and ignores it. You will be grown soon and this girl will mean nothing to you and some girls are just plain out mean.
2006-10-01 16:50:27 · answer #7 · answered by livlafluv 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't let it bother you, while they give you dirty looks, try to exchange it for some clean looks, that might help
2006-10-01 16:38:29 · answer #8 · answered by Pete 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some parents resent and exhibit animosity towards their children. Those children, in turn, grow up and exhibit unusual behavior towards others that they may actually like. Communication is always the best course.
2006-10-01 16:46:52 · answer #9 · answered by thrag 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you called her a biotch nuff said!!! thats y she is acting that way because she is a biotch, shes probally insecure or sum, or jus has some to prove to herself. Next time she looks at you dirty blow her *** a kiss- or when she comes up to your friends and starts talkin um b like dayumn you smell that hater n here> i need sum hater spray and sum hoa b gone -
2006-10-01 16:39:47 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋