2006-10-01 16:18:57 · 26 answers · asked by mike_tall_fit_single 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Wrong lady, my friend, wrong lady. And, perhaps, not a lady at all?
2006-10-01 16:20:58 · answer #1 · answered by David S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
In most cases, we know right up front if we like a guy.
Getting pressure from a guy I don't like turns me into a friend trying to wield off his advances.
Some girls though will forgo their initial "un-attraction" for a guy for some monetary compensation.
So I guess choose to be a creepy friend or buy your way into the affection of the girl you like.
2006-10-01 16:24:28 · answer #2 · answered by *•BK*• 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although some still believe being a jerk to a woman is the way to go, and being nice is a way to always get hurt. I find that its not the jerks meanness that attracts the woman, its the not always being available thing. Let the girl miss you, and don't jump at everything she says, but be nice about it.
2006-10-01 16:21:45 · answer #3 · answered by Alyss K 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because you're probably being so nice, you're showing that you'll be there for her no matter what she does to you...whether women want to be like that or not, it seems to be inherit in them that they will take advantage of that which they do not respect...and as convoluted as it sounds, a man who does nothing other than pour themselves into a woman is one of the least respected men to women.
2006-10-01 16:22:38 · answer #4 · answered by You'll Never Outfox the Fox 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay heres how i feel...either 1. your trying to hard and seem disparate and are annoying her,or 2 she really isn't interested and is trying to give you hints. or 3...women do these teasing things..to get more attention..yeah i know its weird...i didn't know i did it until my current beau pointed it out lol. but yeah. those are 3 possibilites coming from me,another lady ;)
2006-10-01 16:22:11 · answer #5 · answered by yahooaddict 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She is a fool. She doesn't think she should have someone around who is nice. And you shouldn't waste time on that. Find someone who is looking for a genuinely kind soul.
2006-10-01 16:20:50 · answer #6 · answered by Melody 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe (and I'm not saying this is the case for everyone) she feels that you will do whatever she wants you to do, and she'll lose respect for you because you don't act on your own.
2006-10-01 16:21:02 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
if she doesn't care about you in the first place, being nice won't help. if anything it'll creep her out if it's like over-the-top nice. if she does already care about you, being nice is good, and it'll make her care about you more.
you obviously wouldn't be asking this question if you weren't being nice to a girl who didn't care about you, and if your nice-ness weren't seemingly making it worse. try being nice to someone who deserves it--someone that will appreciate it.
2006-10-01 16:22:58 · answer #8 · answered by S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women are like fishsticks. Nobody likes a burnt one!
2006-10-01 16:20:43 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi,,,that has been a mystery to me also for many years.... they like those bad boys,,, rather than a nice guy ,,, hand over fist....
I say F U C Mmmm,,,,,,,all.......
good luck
2006-10-01 16:28:30 · answer #10 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋