Are sexually aggressive men are drawn to pornography because it reinforces their preexisting hostile orientation to sexuality?
2006-10-01 16:15:10 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Health ➔ Men's Health
I have to answer that yes, some of them do.
See, first of all, even though the adult film industry has finally given the women in their production control over the type of scenes and who they work with (contrary to the 70s, 80s, and early 90s), the majority of today's adult productions are still very visually abusive towards the image of the woman.
Although the times when the males dominating the industry has passed, the products being churned out today are a visualisation of the internal frustration some men have with their innadequacy to either satisfy their partner or their innability to get themselves a partner. Hence, the sexual performances portrayed in the majority of adults-only video productions are more often than not a visual form of men abusing their female partners.
There are also some "producers" out there who would have become serial rapists and sex offenders if it wasn't for their outlet in p*rn productions. The most evident example is Max Hardcore (aka Max Steiner) who must be a seriously disturbed man for being turned on by the abuse he performs on his female co-stars. One can only imagine what his sexual life would have been if he didn't have his p*rn productions to vent out!
As far as aggressive men re-enforcing their frustrastion via the consumption of p*rn videos, I unfortunatly have to agree that it is a deffinite possibility. Since the majority of p*rn seems geared towards the male domination over women, then it is only fair to assume frustrated men with fuel their aggresion by re-enforcing the image of abuse and domination via p*rn videos.
However this rule is not universal as some men don't consume p*rn for frustration re-fueling. I myself have viewed thousnads upon thousands of p*rn videos since the 80s and today, I am by no means more "frustrated" nor do I require a "passive" sexual partner who will be but a pawn in my sexually aggresive tendencies. In fact, quite the opposite since I know that p*rn, although realistic and without special effects, is NOT real life. P*rn is NOT real sex, at least not the daily everyday kind!
Hope this helps answer your question!
2006-10-02 01:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
There isn't really a parallel between the two. In fact it is often the shy men who are not aggressive in the least that are drawn to porn. due to the fact that haven't a normal sexual outlet and the men who are what we call perverted that are drawn.
A sexually aggressive man is more likely not drawn - but let's face it, sexual depictions are bound to be like honey to a bear - men are naturally drawn to anything pertaining to sex, it's natural.
2006-10-01 16:27:11 · answer #2 · answered by Dale 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What are sexually aggressive men? You mean men that try to find sex or men that beat you up and then have sex with you? Or are you just scared of men who make advances? As to the porn question, we just love bad girls, especially those that'll let you do anything you want to them (of course not ANYTHING, keeping it in the relam of non-harm, duh).
To be really honest, we keep unsure girls around because you're sweet but we go completely hog wild for wild girls.So basically forget about it, if men make you nervous stop dating.
Anyhow, porn can get boring, but we do end-up with favorite actresses, and sometimes, out of respect and awe, our favorite acotrs, and we do like to go back to some better scenes, or movies (but not scripts, HA! ;) ).
And one more thing, those girls in porn seem to be able to take a hell of alot more than you from what I can tell. Alot braver too...heheeh. That's why we like them so much better.
HOORAY FOR PORNSTARS!!!! WOOOOOH! Booh for you! Oh yeah, and watching porn doesn't mean you're not getting laid, you might just be enjoying yourself watching adult tv.
2006-10-01 17:09:23 · answer #3 · answered by Michal A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think they do it to feed their craving. If they're aroused all the time then they want to find a release from all the build up. Ever been sexually excited and not able to rid of it? Think like that and make it last longer than usual....want some porn? lol.
2006-10-01 16:19:23 · answer #4 · answered by Cam 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not necessarily. i'm sexually aggressive but i'm not addicted or drawn to porn. men are too complex to be profiled or labeled. cheers!
2006-10-01 16:17:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't like those kinds of guys I prefer a shy guy, but porn may feed their nasty little demon
2006-10-01 16:17:52 · answer #6 · answered by Mrs. Butler ♥2 B♥ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
all guys look at porn. no matter if they are sexually aggressive or not. there is nothing wrong with porn either, especially if you can't get any action :D
2006-10-01 16:34:15 · answer #7 · answered by ally 3 · 0⤊ 3⤋
no honey....
ALL men are drawn to porn.
men look its what they do - and its ok........
dont make a big deal of it....
i point out nice looking women....aka....boobs.... to my hubby and buy him porn......
get over your hang-ups....its just looking!
so what
2006-10-01 16:18:49 · answer #8 · answered by azzdart 1 · 0⤊ 3⤋
Then how come i don't need porn?
2006-10-01 19:47:30 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes that 's true
is any thing wrong with your BF !!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 16:17:27 · answer #10 · answered by b_pirooz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋