Ive been with the same guy for about 3years now. Hes never cheated (that I know of) but he has told me small white lies about a couple other things. He does tell me he loves me alot, mentioned getting engaged when he gets enough money for the ring, etc. But for some reason, I just don't trust him completely. Hes a very friendly guy, once in awhile he calls the women he works with sweetheart & flirts a little bit but hes also friendly to guys, he seems to know everyone & there are over 100 people employed there! Im used to dating the shy, quiet guys. I just would like to know if these thoughts that I have of him possibly one day being unfaithful are my own issues or if this is what's called womens intution warning me in advance. Any opinions?
2006-10-01 16:03:56 · 8 answers · asked by Ashley 4 in Entertainment & Music ➔ Polls & Surveys
I'd say stick with him but keep your eye out. You can never be 100% sure one way or another if it's your instincts or your insecurities. I know, I've been there. But as long as you still like him, then just watch for some more distinct warning signs.
2006-10-01 16:09:30 · answer #1 · answered by Kati 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You just answered your question, sort of. Babe, you don't know him well enough to be engaged to him yet. Sometimes couples say I love You out of habit and not feeling, almost like saying excuse me or Bless you. The both of you will be a lot happier if you sit down and talk this out. You will both ruin your lives if you jump into something you aren't sure about right now. Get engaged for all the right reasons. Good Luck.
2006-10-01 23:09:19 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
When it comes to feelings like this I ask myself, if I have any reason to doubt what he says is untrue. You sometimes need to go with your gut instincts only if they have never failed you before. No one person can tell you what you want. Only you know how you wish to be treated by a man. If you're not feeling secure in this relationship then maybe you should take a closer look at him.
2006-10-01 23:09:17 · answer #3 · answered by carmen d 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Trust in someone is a what makes or breaks a relationship. If you have reason not to trust him, it's really hard(next to impossible) to ever get it back. If you are feeling insecure, because he is friendly towards other people,be glad that he is friendly and not an entrusting, insecure,jealous type.
2006-10-01 23:11:37 · answer #4 · answered by kayboff 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I broke up with my ex-boyfriend for similar but more serious reasons. I like to go with my gut feeling. Most likely, you aren't crazy, so why would you feel a certain way with out legitimate reason? Not that you should break up, but maybe put your foot down about his certain behaviors, and vocalize your dislikes more often.
2006-10-01 23:10:39 · answer #5 · answered by Sweet EL 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it can be women's intuition. You should follow your gut. Sit down and evaluate the situation and see if you believe he's the guy you want to spend your life with.
2006-10-01 23:07:30 · answer #6 · answered by Nico 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you've been with him for three years you already know the answer to this question. You know him well enough to be able to decifer whether your feelings are justified or not. You don't need us. You need to listen to your inner voice -- it will tell you.
2006-10-01 23:08:52 · answer #7 · answered by lucydesi1940 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cant help ,,Ask Oprha
2006-10-01 23:08:19 · answer #8 · answered by 4 strings 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋