I don't know what to do with my life and I'm getting older I'm the black sheep of my family. I don't have my family around me I can't keep a job for a long time I always struggling to pay my rent. me and my girl is on the rocks and it seems like my life is falling apart I fell so lost?
2006-10-01 16:03:14 · 13 answers · asked by sam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
yo fool, dont trip. never let em get 2 ya all like dat. why u do me like that. Tomorrow b a new day bro, start there. If ur girl goes so b it fool. there b other hot chics out there. grab ur balls and suckk it up boy. Forget the family cause u cant change em fool. change ur self and the rest will come. Dont even Trip
2006-10-01 16:08:27 · answer #1 · answered by Dont Trip 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is rough on the rocky side, but it is up to you to challenge it and beat the odds to become successful what ever you must do to get there do it in perspective and don;t become a tyrant of it.
I am 47 years old and I had to get something going on in my life besides minimum wage. I entered College at 42 years of age and finished with only an associates degree.
Then I went to the East Central Technical College and took Telecommunications. I need one more year to get my bachelors and I stopped right there because I didn't have to prove anything about myself...it was a little late for me being disabled already and living better now since my Service Connection with VA.
I still have something to fall back on if anything was too go another direction in my financial status.
In your case, you have a great start right now to jump on that band wagon and rock and roll in College and make it happen for you and the job will be there trust me. The pay will be good and it gets better the longer you stick with what ever company you decide to make a home for your career.
The choice is yours......play soft or play hard ball and rock it.
Good Luck
2006-10-01 16:12:01 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
seems to me that you need to change. don't make excuses just do it! Don't stay in the mind set that your the black sheep start beleiving that you are better than that. Everyone goes through a time in their life where everything seems to be going bad but it will pass if you work at it. I always think of people that don't have it as good as I do to keep me motivated to do what I gotta do!
2006-10-01 16:10:47 · answer #3 · answered by A_lady 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't say how old you are, but if you are young you need some support. Actually, no matter how old you are you need a group of friends who have goals and are working towards them. If you hang around with people with no goals you tend to be just like them. Keep trying, the fact that you recognize there is a problem is half the battle. Perhaps you suffer from adult ADD, if you do there are lots of herbal remedies if you can't afford to see a doctor. I know this sounds lame to some people, but church seems to help a lot of people.....
2006-10-01 16:07:14 · answer #4 · answered by Elizabeth L 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all i am also a black sheep you might have to let anyone go who keeps telling how bad or worthless you are make your job very important to you we get a lot of self worth by being good at our job . i know its hard itll take a little time and a lot of work to get it all right but trust me it can be done also if your young 25 30 then relax you still have a lot to learn
2006-10-01 16:10:24 · answer #5 · answered by dpjrocheleau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well you have made a great start by admitting you have a problem. you need to talk to a councillor, about getting a better education, getting yourself on the road to a happy and healthy life. It takes work but you know what the alternate is, you are living it, sounds inspirational to me . You have nothing to loose give your self a hand and get on your way and all the very best to you
2006-10-01 16:08:22 · answer #6 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
slow down with the negative and regroup! we are all getting older, each day 1 day at a time we start over and make the best of it today is all we have live it and be thankful, quite trying to fix everyone and everything in your life! how about just work on you, hey listen what is the main obsticle in your life that is causing you problems, loosing jobs girl friend and what did you do to become the blacksheep of your family. sweetie, stop and look at you. start tomorrow with changing your behavior and your thinking .everything you have mentioned is nobodys fault but yours. change yourself, ask somebody upstairs (god) to help you , he will i promise, he changed my whole life, i used to sound just like you, and really im still trying to get a job now to take care of my daughter and myself , no home either, but everything is going great, i get another chance everyday, that is the blessing and it is then up to me what i am going to do with it, and everyday slowly now,,,,,,it gets better and better, im a very grateful person but i have to watch out because im also a very selfish selfcented person who wants things my way, and that right there i have to change or continue to suffer. god bless. and hang in there , your ok .just prove it to yourself. remember change and that means everyday. then your family and friends in time will trust you, not by what you say but by what you do right , not one week either and then doing bull **** again, you will be right back where you started, wondering what happened,
2006-10-01 16:23:57 · answer #7 · answered by betsyturminyen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Everybody have financial problems but you just have to be strong for you and your girls and think about the reason why you always losing your job. maybe there is something that you are doing for you to loose your job..... Just be strong and don't worry too much because I figure if you have a positive thought, positive things will happen and if you have a negative thought, negative things will happen. That's how I feel..... Worries just put your mind in danger..
2006-10-01 16:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Angel G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Could you possibly be depressed? You certainly sound depressed. If you are, it could be the root of all the rest of your problems. Maybe check with your doctor to find out, there are lots of treatments for depression out there. Good luck.
2006-10-01 16:06:05 · answer #9 · answered by basketcase88 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Commit to something, get it right, then move on to the next. Time to man up.
2006-10-01 16:09:10 · answer #10 · answered by JimmyJ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋