I am afraid that if I tell him that it would ruin our relationship and that he would totally hate me and I think he is crushing on my best friend. Not to mention he keeps going on and off with this other girl. HELP ME
2006-10-01 15:19:28 · 12 answers · asked by Joey 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Just remain friends. It is hard. I know I have oh so been there. I am still friends with him today.....it is not easy though to keep the feelings in check. But you must be strong and know there is another guy out there for you. Just wait keep living life and see. I bet he knows already that you like him. Be strong!!
2006-10-01 15:40:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
In most cases when a girl hooks up with a guy that she had as a friend first. the relationship turns out more successful. For one u don't have that strang feeling of getting to know someone new because u already know each other. but really just follow your first mind, it gives u the best result.
2006-10-01 22:23:09 · answer #2 · answered by likecandy 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its a bad idea what ur thinking. stop thinking about it and get it out of ur head. Its normal to have a crush on a friend but trust me dont act on it youve probably never been in love so you dont know what its like you might just ruin your friendship. Dont do what these people say when they are talking about how if you really love him you should do it. DONT DO IT.
2006-10-01 22:23:25 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
From experience, I think you should not go with him because if you two brake up and usually people wants to be friends after an brake up will not be the same.Don't let him go with your friend. He's with some other girl, it sound like they going through some problems and that's something you want to say away form if you want your heart broken.
2006-10-01 22:28:28 · answer #4 · answered by teryhotbod 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
first of all if you think hes crushing on ur best friend don't do it think about if hes on and off with some girl what does that tell you ?{hes not very loyal to who he dates } hes ur friend you should know him well enough to know how he's going to handle the situation if you tell him how u feel i know it might seem difficult but don't do it just wait and see who will come along for you if ur nervous about telling him then that should be a clue in itself not to tell him u said ur self hes ur on of your best friends but ur afraid to him this? don't do it just Wait u'll see
2006-10-01 22:27:05 · answer #5 · answered by pure 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it's hard, but you really don't want to lose a friend. wait 4 him 2 make the first move, then go from there
2006-10-01 22:28:22 · answer #6 · answered by Kenneth BOBBY Pacheco 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
just get with the guy dont crush on him thats a waste of time.... live life in the moment if you like him tell him now...I mean rather you tell him or not your still going to like him act on your feelings before he acts on your friend then you will just be jealous.....
2006-10-01 22:23:24 · answer #7 · answered by Candi 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Hmmm.... lets see... try to flirt woth him the most u can without making it so obvious, and then get one of ur other friends that he isnt crushing on to try to see if he likes you back
2006-10-01 22:22:20 · answer #8 · answered by Seantell 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Dont do it. Some friend of mine told me she liked me n that was it, I havent talked to her because it would feel weird now anddd everything changed now.
2006-10-01 22:24:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 1⤋
do not get with him irepeat
DO NOT GET WITH HIM
hes going to play you like hes playing the other girl
he might go out with all thre of u at the same time
2006-10-01 22:40:11 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋