He was cheating on me sleeping with another girl and i was pissed. I got so upset i hit him across the face he hasnt talked to me since. I couldnt control anything and trust me im not one of those girls who takes advantage of the guys cant hit girls rule. Than im thinking about how i feel like **** when i should really be mad at him for sleeping with my neighbor! Am i right or wrong?
2006-10-01 15:17:46 · 10 answers · asked by KARA 1 in Arts & Humanities ➔ Other - Arts & Humanities
Well, I would have done worse than slapping him. Don't worry about that cheater being mad. Stay away from him, he is just not worth it.
2006-10-01 15:21:25 · answer #1 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't feel guilty. It is all good. However, don't listen to other girls! If your man can get two girls, he must be good at something. Think about do you still like him or not. If you like him, DO NOT LEAVE. That is what the other girl want. You will become a total loser.
Yes you should be mad, but slapping does not solve the problem. If you still like him, tell him that this hurts you. See what he think. Try to be nicer to him and turn him around. Unless you feel you can not compete with the new girl.
Man does not always like the new girl, don't just give your man out. On the other hand, if he does not like you any more. You can do the same. You let him go and sleep with him while he is with this new girl. See what happen.
2006-10-01 16:12:49 · answer #2 · answered by coolest_smart_guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't worry about it Sweety when I caught my man I did more then that & I did a number on the girl as well this was years ago I got busted but when it went 2 court all charges got dropped and believe me your not the guilty one he is & so is your neighbor she isn't innocent either they both knew what they were doing.Get on with your life & find a true guy who won't cheat cause once they do they'll always cheat believe me I know.Good Luck
2006-10-01 15:26:21 · answer #3 · answered by sugarbdp1 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Assuming you are innocent of cheating on him, the important thing is not that you slapped him - he had that, or worse, coming - but that you should drop him. Think about it. He not only showed you he doesn't have enough love or respect for you to deserve your loyalty, and also that he has no consideration for your feelings, but he risked your health and possibly even your life. If you make up with him, you will undoubtedly get more of the same, and next time you will deserve it.
2006-10-02 13:40:45 · answer #4 · answered by haroldpohl2000 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Considering it was a act done in the heat of the moment and not a pattern of abuse your action can easily be excused but he betrayed you,betrayed the relationship and betrayed trust.What is a slap compared to his deed---cheapening nd dirtying your relationship with him and now he plays the injured one. Has he even apologized- I hope to God you are not attempting to contact him for him to forgive you for if you are then you are setting a pattern whether it be with him or any other man. You need to examine yourself and question why you put such importance on your action and feel badly"like ****" but not as mad as you should be at his cheating------------a serious issue. In order to avoid a lifetime of you being used contact your county community service board and inquire about counseling-it may save you from yourself and a life of woe.
2006-10-01 15:35:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't have smacked him, however, since you cannot go back and undo the past, and can only go forward, perhaps you should send him an apologetic card. Then, if you know for sure he was cheating on you, break up with him. Slapping someone can result in being arrested, unless you were defending yourself from a physical assault.
2006-10-01 15:28:28 · answer #6 · answered by Kay_Zoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hitting him was something any of us would have done. if i can offer you some advice, just get out of that relationship RIGHT NOW cause youll never be able to look at him the same.
im sorry this happened but maybe he wasnt the guy for you after all.
2006-10-01 15:20:20 · answer #7 · answered by sean_mchugh6 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think you are right to be pissed, but slapping him may have been a little much, but then again he may have had it coming. I can't give you any personal experince stories though, but you have more of a right to be mad then he does.
2006-10-01 15:21:11 · answer #8 · answered by Andy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My question to you is why do you care.....he cheated on you.
If you needed to ask this it should have been about your "ex-boyfriend."
2006-10-01 15:23:50 · answer #9 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're right. Dump him.
2006-10-01 15:24:13 · answer #10 · answered by BCC 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋