what!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 15:16:26
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answered by Anonymous
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If it seems as if there must be gays and lesbians in your city but you simply aren't finding them, here are some tips that can help. Who knows, the folks you're looking for could be right under your nose.
Steps
1. Pick up a copy of a local gay and lesbian newspaper or magazine, and consider attending some of the events listed or advertised there.
2. Search to see if there is a gay guide Web site for your city - it might list personal home pages of locals. You can find a pretty good list of guides at GayGuide.Net.
3. Visit your city's Metropolitan Community Church, if there is one - it's a predominantly gay denomination of about 300 congregations. Look for these churches in the yellow pages or find a list of them on the denomination's Web site (mccchurch.org).
4. Attend a meeting of the local chapter of Parents, Families and Friends of Lesbians and Gays (pflag.org). The group is for gay people as well as family members, and it is often one of the liveliest and most welcoming groups in town.
5. Drop by the bookstore and stay awhile in the gay and lesbian section. The other people who visit that section are likely to talk to you because they already know you have something in common.
6. Answer or place a personal ad - preferably in a gay publication or in the city's alternative weekly newspaper. It may not work, but they are inexpensive and sometimes free.
7. Do it the old-fashioned way - go to a gay bar. You might be surprised to find some pretty nice people there who - like you - just want to make some friends.
Tips & Warnings
* Don't be too surprised if you get snubbed a few times. Not everyone is looking to make new friends, so don't take it personally when they aren't interested in even a chat.
* You might find gay and lesbian publications in the lobby of some mainstream bookstores, or on college campuses; or you can always check online.
2006-10-01 22:17:47
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answered by Ashanofy Frederick Dixon 3
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Talk to one. But the way you come across, u seem lyk u jus want a gay friend. not because u truthfully need a buddy to hang with. And why does he or she have to be gay. Well, ne way, look for one at your school or any other place and be-friend them. Got to a Gay-Lesbian Club or find a pal online who is gay.
2006-10-01 22:17:23
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answered by riley715 2
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first of all do you know of any other, out there open honest gay people wrre your att?? its not like runing a ful page add in a newspaper speaking of which were ever your based at do they run a section in your newspaper just for hooking up with other gays?/ some newspapers do some dont. start with one of your other gay friends if you know of one. and do they have, a gay towne hal meting wrere your at?/ or we hate too suggest this gay bars?/ were your at, we dont know, but its a very good place too start okay are you on your own have a roome too rent?/ you can start from there too, save money on your utilities or taxes if you own.
2006-10-01 22:20:05
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answered by Anonymous
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If you have a number of friends, you probably have a gay friend and don't even know it.
Why do you need to put a label like that on a friend? Friends are friends. . .some are gay, some bi, some straight.
2006-10-01 22:18:08
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answered by Road Warrior 4
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Be friendly to gay people...
2006-10-01 22:23:03
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answered by HONORARIUS 7
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The first thing that you have to do is get a job in the mall. The next thing that you have to do is treat them as if their sexuality is unimportant.
2006-10-01 22:18:41
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answered by Anonymous
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go to San Fransisco
2006-10-01 23:29:34
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answered by Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ Mom2two Ƹ̵̡Ӝ̵̨̄Ʒ 7
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why?
2006-10-01 22:19:19
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answered by LostandConfused 2
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