2006-10-01 15:10:45 · 19 answers · asked by vickipoo 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Sorry let me fill you in. I have been dating this guy for 7 months going on 8. I looked through his phone a while back and noticed several text messages from his ex girlfriend. They are still friends so I didn't think anything of it. Well I met her and can tell she still has feelings for him. He left her a message on myspace saying how nice her boobs looked in her picture. But he swears they are just really good friends. I don't know... I want more than anything to trust him. He has been cheated on in the past so I don't think he would cheat on me.
2006-10-01 15:22:06 · update #1
Only if he keeps talking about it...otherwise keep in mind that he's with you now so his relationship with her must have sucked since he's not with her anymore.
2006-10-01 15:12:47 · answer #1 · answered by fla_dan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My ex's girlfriend is extrememly jealous of the fact that my ex and I have to see each other on a weekly basis, sometimes several times a week, we have kids together and he has supervised only visits, so it is unavoidable. She just hasn;t realized yet that there is a reason, and a very good one that I kicked him out 2 years ago. Your situation may be different, but if there are kids involved, I would say stop being jealous, it makes it hard. If there are no kids involved than be jealous if you want, but it won;t get you anything but stress.
2006-10-01 15:14:27 · answer #2 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is very natural and normal to be jealous. How does he feel a bout your ex-relationships? Keeping ex's around will never allow either one of you to build trust. If he really wants to build a relationship with you, he would be doing everything he can to make you happy. If he is not serious, well just have a light-hearted fun relationship until someone more mature tickles your fancy.
2006-10-01 15:19:46 · answer #3 · answered by birdie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well as jealousy itself isn't bad unless over-reacted. If he gives any reason for you to get jealous , well it is just a normal reaction....again you can talk about this over so you won't deal on this from time to time....tell him what could possibly make you jealous and that at the same time he could be able to understand you also.
2006-10-01 15:15:46 · answer #4 · answered by maic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It all depends I guess. Do they hang out alot or do things alone together. Do they call each other on the phone or just say hello if they run into one another ? I need more details before I could even say on this one !
2006-10-01 15:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by MizzSweetness 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you to are serious about each other, than there is no way he should have any involvement with his ex. If he can't deal with that then it's time for you bite dust with him. You'll find someone who's alot better and respectful towards you.
2006-10-01 15:43:19 · answer #6 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it isn't wrong to feel jealous... but you can try to cope with it in a mature way. have some trust unless there is good reason not to. but don't let your fears make you act insane
2006-10-01 15:15:13 · answer #7 · answered by same here 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do not think long-term with him if he is still communicating with an ex. You don't have to break up, and you don't have to be jealous, as long as you don't expect too much.
2006-10-01 15:13:16 · answer #8 · answered by T Time 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would be jealous but I think it really depends. If you trust himt han you trust him but i dont see anything wrong with jealousy
2006-10-01 15:13:40 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends. if it is just friendly then you shouldnt be jealous. if they have a child then the have to have some sort of relationship
you need to specify what is going on
2006-10-01 15:13:22 · answer #10 · answered by wantme_comegetme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋