The best advice I can give is regardless of why you're angry with the other person, you should forgive that person not for them but for yourself. Having anger built up inside is only hurting yourself. If it's something really intolerable that you're angry with the other person then you should still forgive and end the relationship with that person. If it's just something you're upset about then you need to "let it go" and have a talk with this person in a calm manner and explain that you're upset because of.....whatever the reason is but make sure you're speaking from your heart and not out of anger.
2006-10-01 15:20:03
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answered by Bill B 2
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Think about it really hard. I just decide that I am better than whatever is pissing me off. Then, I decide that if I'm angry, I might stay angry for one day, one week, or maybe a month. Will I enjoy much of that time? No, cuz I'll be pissed off the whole time. I know that things always get better, people that piss me off eventually get what they deserve, and if I'm letting people make me mad, then I am the weak person. I just try to stand my ground and not let things get me down. It's never worth the wasted time, energy, and thinking.
2006-10-01 15:14:11
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answered by jesse s 2
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I haven't figured that one out yet. I have a ex-babysitter that I would like to shake violently just as she did my 3 month old baby 9 1/2 years ago. Of course I would never actually do it because I'm not a violent person but I sure have thought about it. Every time I she her I just get instantly mad all over again. ( nothing ever happened to her, she's a prominent member in our town). It takes me a week to get over it and then I see her again and it starts all over again.
2006-10-01 15:20:04
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answered by unicornfarie1 6
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If there is anyway to confront the person you should ,that is the best way to get over it. Sometimes it is hard to talk with the person due to the hurt feelings. But is ALWAYS the best solutions.Talk it out. If not, you need to give it time(time heals all wounds or makes them easier to deal with) and pray.
2006-10-01 15:27:47
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answered by confused 2
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Try writing it down first and getting your words on paper. That way you can sort thru your thoughts in a more productive manner. If you do feel ready to confront this person, you will be choosier about your words and hopefully more effective w/out causing further damage to the relationship.
2006-10-01 15:15:12
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answered by Princess 2
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just do the opposite of what you are thinking of,, gets you in the right track,, forgiveness is cool to a point,, but then if you allow yourself to get into the same situation as to what got you mad in the first place well,, it's your doing not the other person,, don't step on poop if you know its going to smell,,
2006-10-01 15:16:24
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answered by quitelovableman 4
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blow off some steam by like screaming in your pillow or punching something, and then try to let the person who ur mad at know that ur mad at them, and hopefully things will work themselves out( i hope this works because I'm in the same predicament)
2006-10-01 15:16:23
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answered by Anonymous
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Good question. I have some hurt that I'm trying to still get over.
2006-10-02 04:52:51
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answered by Anonymous
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ok how bout talkin on the phone and try to stay calm this will elimanate the factor of hitting this person
2006-10-01 15:24:22
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answered by <3 3
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simple just count one two three using ur own hands.. this will divert ur anger.. this works for me..
2006-10-01 15:14:42
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answered by Anonymous
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