i just found out im pregnant?

Question

im 18, i dont know how to tell my parents. i dont know how far along i am (not to far) or have a doctor. Im not embarassed, im just lost...i sound funny, but im really lost cuz it hasnt hit me yet that im pregnant cept for the sickness......pleaz and thank u.

thanks so far, im going to keep him/her, but its my dad, who would have a problem. I just got a job, and i dont really feel comfortable telling my boss, but im just going to do it. So do i just call an Oby doc or something....how do i contact a doc, sorry guyz, im an average college student, if it aint about skoo, then oh well, but i kno i gotta grow up and blah blah, but thanx so far

Answer 1

Sit down with them...and explain to them ur situation...if they love and care about you they will help you out..everybody makes mistakes in their lives..its gonna be ok, just keep your head up :D

Answer 2

Congratulations. Have you told the father of your baby yet?
Decide what you want to do first. Your parents will ask you.
Perhaps if you told your mom first and then ask her to help you
tell your dad. Your dad will want to meet the baby's father and
will demand to know what and how he plans on taking care
of his responsibilities. The fact that you are 18 makes you an adult. I think your parents will have mixed feelings and reactions
to the news. In the end they will stand by you and help any way
they can. They love you and always will. Never view this
baby as a mistake. Your baby is a blessing. May I suggest
parenting classes. Again congratulations.

Answer 3

Just be open and honest with your parents, they might seem upset at first but then in the long run they will turn out and be happy to you and cherish the moments of being grandparents. Your parents can help you find a doctor etc. If you feel uneasy about asking them to help you you can go to your local family planning clinic and they can also help you. Good luck in whatever you decide to do but plz remember that you are pregnant and you not only have yourself to think of but also the baby and in most cases the baby's father also. Again good luck

Answer 4

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Answer 5

I know its hard but just sit down with your parents and be honest. the sooner you do the better you will feel and the less stress you will be putting on you and your unborn cnild. If you have medical insurance you can just find a doctor through the insurance company. If not you can always get state assistance and medicaid. You should see a doctor in the next week or so for your initial visit. Good luck and enjoy your pregnancy.

Answer 6

First thing.. is stop and take a deep breath.. then smile you are going to be a mother and that is one of the best things in life.. telling your parents is nerve recking.. but you've gotta do it.. look for an OB GYN that your insurance covers.. if you don't have insurace then look for some.. you'll need.. after getting all of that behind you.. take some time out to plan for this baby.. start thinking of a name.. and somethings you'd like for this baby to have.. don't let this stress you out.. you'll always have people that are here to help.

Answer 7

I am 33 weeks and it never really seemed real for me until I seen my baby during my first ultra sound. so hang in there you will love it soon it takes time to sink in as for your family tell them when you are around three months that's what I did and at first some people were upset but you know what they all came around and the ones who hated the idea are planning my baby shower. You need not worry just take care of yourself and get lots of rest and talk to your doctor if you have to much stress they will help you get through the rough part congrats and good luck to you and your baby.

Answer 8

You should just tell your parents. They are going to find out sooner or later anyways. I am 21 y/o and work on a Labor and Delivery Deck. I have seen many girls your age and some younger come in and I'm telling you it will be a lot easier with your parents support. I don't know your parents or how they will react, but if they support you it will be easier on you. If it takes a turn for the worst and they are so mad they don't want anything to do with your pregnancy then you will have to make it work somehow but atleast you wont be stressing about them finding out.

Answer 9

ok i was 17 when i became pregnant with my first child i went ahead and told my parents i just got to the point that I'm not a little girl no more and i made the choice to have sex now i have to deal with the responsibility and of course we had problems but they got over it now i have 3 wonderful kids and wouldn't change it for the world just some things you need to know if you don't already I'm not sure if they offer this where you are at but call your local health department sign up for WIC then look in the blue pages for medicaid and sign up for that so just in case your parents ask how you are going to afford this you can tell them you have medicaid insurance that will cover the pregnancy appts and delivery and wic will cover formula i hope that helps i

Answer 10

For the sake of your unborn child, if you are absolutely certain you are pregnant, then talk it over with the biological father of the child. Make plans to get married. As a matter of fact, go get a marriage license tomorrow. Tell your mother straight up and have her and your "fiance" go with you to see a doctor and get everything checked out, again for the sake of the baby. If you favorably resolve the health of you, your fiance, and your baby, along with the fact that the child will be born after you are married, your father can be convinced that his grandchild will be the best thing ever for your family. Your mother will help! Make sure marriage is in the mix, or you father will not be happy about this event. . . ever!

Answer 11

I know its hard to tell your parents but the best thing to do is go ahead and do it now. Simply because the longer you wait the worse off it will be. They will find out anyway. They will be upset at first but they will eventually get over it. You need to give them time though and not get upset with them..let them heal in their own time. Also congrats..being pregnant is not a bad thing. It will be hard, however you can do it. There are tons of women out there who do it everyday, some even younger than you are. There are centers out there who will help you out as well. When you go to your doc. talk with them about it and they will also provide you with helpful information as well. You can also go to www.babycenter.com and get tons of helpful info. Well I hope that everything works out well for you!