I dont know wat to do. I love him but he cant stop loving his ex. And they still keep in touch.
2006-10-01 14:56:22 · 22 answers · asked by Jennifer J 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I'm sorry ur going through this sweetie. But he really shouldn't be that in touch with his ex unless they have kids and even that shouldn't be the reason.
U should just coe right out and tell him how this is making u feel, keeping quiet is only gonna hurt u more so talk with him and tell him that u really don't like feeling as if ur in the way and that if he really truelt love u then he gonna have to let go of that ex because u don't deserve this.
2006-10-01 15:01:44 · answer #1 · answered by itspink22@sbcglobal.net 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally, I would cut my losses. Situations like these rarely get better overtime. If it is not his ex, then I might be another woman later on down the line. If you don't have what it takes to keep his attention, leave him alone. The sooner you do it, the sooner you can move on. The longer you wait, the more entangled you'll become.
I really don't believe in long courtships. If a couple is serious make the commitment and get married. It's honourable in the eyes of God. In other words, if he can't commit now, he never will be.
And this is comming from an ex-womanizer, who found the right one, committed, and have been happily married for over six years.
2006-10-01 15:13:47 · answer #2 · answered by John W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then you need to make a decision for him.. That is not how a true relationship is built and you don't have to settle in being seconds. You a woman that has love to give if he can't cut the pass and deal with the future then why are you allowing him to only give you half you will never completely have him and your saying its ok to go and sleep with her bases on its ok for him to share the love!!'
Let him know either he is cutting the past and developing a future.. walk and find a man that wants ALL of you and no one can come between the love
2006-10-01 15:01:51 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry for you but I would personally have to go. You are better than that, you can find someone who loves you and only you. There are so many men out there that would adore you if you only let them. I went through a lot of losers before I found the guy I am with now and we are very happy. You can't change the way that your husband feels. He shouldn't have married you with unresolved feelings.It is not fair to you.
2006-10-01 15:05:17 · answer #4 · answered by Anne 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure it's possible to love two people the same. If he had a long relationship with his ex, he is always going to have feelings for her. You need to be secure in the relationship and realize that you are the one he is with now.
2006-10-01 14:58:57 · answer #5 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one heart was intended to love one heart,not many.you must look to YOUR best interest for the future..would you drive across a bridge that has holes in it??That would be just as safe as what you are doing now.This Man needs to make up his mind and choose the one he loves ,and he WILL if he Really loves you.he is not worth your time if he will not leave the "other" alone..God Bless you..
2006-10-01 15:04:31 · answer #6 · answered by compused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Leave him. If he truly loves you he'll follow you. If not, well, its time for you to have a better life with someone who can love only you. How can you build trust in your relationship when you know there's someone else in the picture.
2006-10-01 15:04:46 · answer #7 · answered by barracuda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he still loves his ex then he doesn't love you. You are convenient for him and as long as you remain convenient, there's no reason for him to stop behaving that way. He'll treat you the way you let him.
2006-10-01 15:01:53 · answer #8 · answered by Lisa S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Where is is written that you cannot love more than one one person. This makes me crazyl In the mind of God he requires that we love other people as he loves us. He loves everyone infinitely. You are at peace in your life when your mind is aligned with God. Why? Because that is your identity and you cannot be at peace when you are not being yourself
2006-10-01 15:00:12 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's up to you. He may want his cake and eat it too. If you like three some then go for it. But remember he will always be someone else man.
2006-10-01 14:59:46 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋