at first he thought it was a good idea but now he says that he doesn't really c a future w/me n he doesn't want 2 feel obligated 2 b w/me bcuz of the house if he ever wants 2 break up. we have been living 2gether for 10 months now n i moved out frm a different state for him. I really don't have anybody but him out here. What should I do?
2006-10-01 14:48:58 · 5 answers · asked by lady06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
I told him I didn't want 2 move in w/him 2 the house but wants me 2 move in I have a great job here so I don't want 2 move back
2006-10-01 15:05:09 · update #1
If he says he doesn't see a future with you then why stay with him? I moved 3,000 miles for a guy once and after 2 months he said that to me... so, I said, "Good bye!" I moved back to my home state. That was three years ago and I'm now very happily married to a man that is amazing. If he doesn't see a future then why waste your time on him, there are better guys out there... I'm sure of it!
If you don't want to move back to your home state you don't have to... you can rent your own place. You can even stay friends with him if you want to, but I don't see any logic behind staying with someone who doesn't see any future with you. You can do better.
2006-10-01 14:53:15 · answer #1 · answered by starsmoak 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-18 08:07:35 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move back where you came from. He told you he sees no future w/u. He is a smart guy for buying the house in his own name b/c he is not planning on being w/u in the future. Sorry for being blunt.
2006-10-01 15:00:06 · answer #3 · answered by snddupree 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its really simple hes selfish and stuck on himself,, he wont give a s h i t about you and probably doesnt now,, sorry to say,,,, if he wants his own house let him have it ,, if youve traveled for him and he doesnt want you, go out and find someone worthwhile,, if you need somewhere to stay, search around for a rental or an apartment,,, and build something on your own,, dont let one b f ruin your future,, if hes not gonna be it and says he doesnt want you named on the house in case you break up,, then hes already made up his mind and either is planning to break up soon , or already has another woman,, and will tell you once he settles her in cozily,, do yourself a favor and get out now before you lose out on some one who may be out there !!!
2006-10-01 15:05:38 · answer #4 · answered by John C 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I agree w/Starsmoak
2006-10-01 14:55:01 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋