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i really dont like myself very much. my shrink says maybe we can have a meeting with my parents becuz they are very mean to me. like they are just awful parents who give bad advice and r verbally abusive to me, ocasionaly physcally abusive an are never ever satisfied with me no matter what and are just plain impossible. she says lets having a meeting with them maybe u would like urself if u felt more luved so i finally agree after like 3 months im scared of it and i know it cant do anything good. she really cant get thru to these oh-so-impossible people. we were in family therapy yrs. ago it didnt work they luv me but are not good to me and i hav askd to b placed in another home, but they refuse. my shrink says that i should change my thoughts so that i can feel better. wen u have ppl punishing and screaming at u for things like not having a tan, how can u feel good? im always being screamed at.

also when they are phsyically abusive ex: my dad pinning me to the wall so my dad can xpect my acne. if i wdas to call they cops they would say for them to never ever touch me. but if i did that they would punish me for that by doing non-physical things like giving away my pets, taking away my computer, throwing away my favorite shirt, giving me a bad mattress,

Answer 1

Wow, I'm so sorry for your situation. I really believe you should talk to your parents upfront. Sit them down somewhere, like at dinner or while watching t.v., or before bed. Explain to them how you feel, like, "I know you guys love me, but sometimes the way you guys treat me makes that hard to believe. Some things you say, they make me feel bad inside, like I'm not good enough. I'm willing to change if you are, because I'm unhappy." If they don't understand or things dont change, then I'm afraid that all you can do is rely on the support of your friends and other family members, or take this to the authorities. You mentioned that there is physical abuse involved, and if this occurs often, then not only is this bad but it is illegal. They can be put away for that. If thats not the case, then some options for you are:
1. Take this to someone that you trust, like a teacher, your current counselor, or call someone like your grandparents or Aunts/Uncles. They might be able to take things into action with you.
2. Ask to stay at a relative/friends house for a while, just to cool off. You need a break from these people.
3. Talk to your parents as frequently as you can about this, and even when they are yelling at you. For example, if your mom says, "You dont have a tan?! I told you to go tanning today. You're grounded," say, "Mom, you're hurting my feelings, is my skin now not good enough for you? I'm beggining to be afraid of you!" That might show her what she's really doing to you right then and there.
I wish you the best of luck, get some help with this, and you can get through it. Never give up, you are so strong for staying in this and surviving. Feel free to message if you ever need a little advice or pick-me-up. God bless you!

Answer 2

How old r u ? Its is possible to become an immancipated minor mind the speeling other wise your parents wont actully see what they are doing to you untill youre much older 30s or even 40s if they live that long. Dont run away! pray to God for answers start going to chuch get involved at any local chuch that in my opinion is better than any head doctor also you could accedently let them read your ? on yahoo and some of the answers maybe that can convense them to calm down some.

Answer 3

find away to get away friends are good they'll let u stay over if u need it and maybe just stop hanging around ur house all the time i dont think that calling the cops on ur parent while ur there where they can get to u is a good idea. go someplace where u feel safe and with a grown up and call from there. say its anonymous so they cant find out give them (the police a good reason that they need to be arrested and that u need to be someplace else) and stay with that person until ur parents are saftly away from u. hey dont feel bad about ur self. im sure ur really cool. im screamed at alot too and so r my friends find a safe place in ur house one that can be all urs. i dont have a tan either so dont worry there not easy to get ;-P

Answer 4

I don't know what to tell you, except those other two people who just answered your question were being butts.

Answer 5

Wake up and smell the coffee.

Answer 6

you're complicated,and yahoo do have spell verify........b.t.w. potato chips will continually be around.........p/s I even have 2 Small luggage now bar. and bitter cream...MmMmm solid!!!

Answer 7

Ahhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhhh, shut up!!!!