Did you go all the way, or just kiss and touch?
2006-10-01 13:48:43 · 20 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
No, have not and will never.
2006-10-01 13:52:40 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I have not, but my husband has and it's heartbreaking. I still think about the trust that has been broken. Unfortunately, when the betrayed one finds out, they don't just stop loving you, so it's not easy to walk away. What the cheater need to worry about is the after effects; the spouse growing out of love because of the pain you caused them. IT's not easy, but hey that's life. In my opinion, I would say leave and then do what you want. NEVER cheat on the person, because you are really cheating yourself. Trust is everything!!
2006-10-02 11:54:59 · answer #2 · answered by sassy lady 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Never cheated and I'm very young and attractive... But I married my husband for a purpose of serving him and him only... I will never cheat on my husband... I would never give another man the satisfaction to even know that they slept with a soldiers wife....
But good luck to all you cheaters and know that KARMA is real... And some people wonder why they just can't seem to be happy or why there always getting hurt by the people they truly like... However, I don't think this question applies so... I'm done..
Peace and good luck.................................
2006-10-02 09:39:29 · answer #3 · answered by The'Truth 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes, many years ago. I spent years in self-loathing and fear because of it. It was one of the most stupid things I have ever done. My only excuse was that I was young, just back from Vietnam with major issues, and my wife wasn't too happy with the husband who returned to her. We grew apart. While I was gone she became self-reliant. Didn't need me as much. And it was hard trying to fit back in. So, the bottle and a fling resulted. I spent years in fear that my wife would find out. And when she did she was devastated by it, (or so I thought). Actually she had been having a long term (30 years) affair with her doctor. Now they're married. All that guilt all those years! If you're gonna cheat be prepared for dire consequences. Some would say I got what I deserved in spades! You know, I probably did.
2006-10-01 21:08:39 · answer #4 · answered by Tom 7 · 3⤊ 1⤋
Yes, I have, before we were married, when we were going through a tough time, and i had basically told him it was over, but told him we would talk about it after the weekend. I left and ended up sleeping with a friend of mine, never intending to stay with/get back together with my (now) husband. In my mind we were over, in his we were still together, so technically it was cheating, but we were both able to get over it, and work on some of the issues (him being jealous, overprotective), and get over it. Now we've been happily married for 2, 1/2 years.
2006-10-01 21:00:44 · answer #5 · answered by Cyndi Storm 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Cheating is for selfish cowards. I made a commitment to my wife and I'm man enough to live upto it.
15 years and still going strong.
2006-10-01 21:03:26 · answer #6 · answered by St.Anger 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I haven`t done it in the past three years,but I can`t swear I won`t do it in the next 3 years...
and if I would I would go all the way...
2006-10-01 20:53:10 · answer #7 · answered by donatella 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lets see, youve only asked similar questions what, 100 times? whats the fascination?
How idiotic, to ask and ask and ask,,,go see a psychiatrist
2006-10-01 20:51:45 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Both! Me and my Husband
And the outcome was horrible, it took alot to over come. Get a dog, cat, bird, or maybe just TALK TO YOUR SPOUSE!!
2006-10-01 21:25:46 · answer #9 · answered by NURSING FOR LIFE!! 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, never....and I'm proud of it. and there was no kissing and no touching.
2006-10-01 20:54:18 · answer #10 · answered by Red 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope, never had. Oh, and to the poster above me (Cattlemanbob): U R an idiot!!!
2006-10-01 20:58:24 · answer #11 · answered by cheetah7 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋