ok when i was 12 my dad to make money let guys(of any age) touch me and have sex with me! how wrong is this and yes he is in jail(not 4 that but the cops know about it) 4 this next question i need to say this:love can and should be felt at any and all ages! ok how wrong is it to get married at 13? my bf asked me to marry him he is older then me(im 13 hes 16) we have been dateing 4 about 2 years and yes we have had sex(go ahead call me a slut i dont give a f***!!) i really love him and i would give up anything 4 him even my life he has showed me that he feels the same way about me(by writing poems,songs and even cutting himself when i was in the hospial(i dont care about spelling) the only thing i really do care about is him!! so what do you think about both of my questions they have nothing to do with each other!!
2006-10-01 13:46:53 · 21 answers · asked by FrozenCyclone Xmen Rule 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
is this a joke?
2006-10-01 13:49:58 · answer #1 · answered by ShellyBelly 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Kiddo you have got a long way to go. I truely do not know what to say about the dad situation but be glad that he's gone. And I hope that you are getting some counseling for that. I get it you love your bf and are going to do what you want in regards to sex. But you guys are young and have a long way to go. As far a the getting married. Hey you are probably right he's the one. And why shouldnt you get married. But seeing as how you have found the right guy for you what's the rush you luv him he luv's you. So your gonna stay together right. Now on a more serious note your bf cutting himself because your are in the hospital does that tell you that he's ready to be mature and be a husband to you. Look slow down. tell him to stop cutting and give your love a real chance
2006-10-01 21:02:12 · answer #2 · answered by SUPERSTAR X 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all, sounds like you are clinging on to anything that loves you, because you have not had a positive Parental role model in your life your looking for something that is secure and safe. If your boyfriend is cutting himself, that isn't how someone shows they love you, that shows that they are not mentally stable and you should try to find some positive role models to be around. You are way to young to be thinking about marriage, you should be trying to concentrate on school and friends. Where is your mother in all of this? Do what you want though it's your life and you are the only one that is going to learn from making mistakes but take from someone that has been down many roads and have lived a lil it's not the path you want to take.. but like I said it's your call.. good luck and know that you are worth everything in life.. and deserve to be treated with love and respect..
2006-10-01 20:53:45 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you want to escape home. Marriage is hard work and about more than sex. an adult needs to sign for you, unless you live in an odd state where they aloow young marriages. I personally think you need to get professional counceliiing before you get married or you are going to have problems you husband doesn't know how to deal with. Is that fair to him? I'm sorry you've had such a hard young life.
2006-10-01 20:54:48 · answer #4 · answered by nancy e 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your father deserves a slow painful beating followed by a lengthy prison term for whoring you out.
The remnants of that cannot be good. Please find some source for therapy. There must be a mental health group in your area that can set that up.You have been forced to deal with issues as a child which most adults cannot handle. Please get some \therapy. If the police know about your history they may be able to help you find some therapy. For your own well being please pursue this.
BTW, cutting behavior is a statement. It means he needs some therapy as well.
2006-10-01 21:09:59 · answer #5 · answered by Flagger 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
one i respect you for staying strong through the first thing, as for getting married at 13...wait if its true love like you say it is, it will wait with you, continue dating maybe even be "engaged" if it would make you feel better but as for getting married and started ur lives like offically together, i think 13 is too young but i do believe that what u have is real and will wait for you two to be ready...
2006-10-01 20:52:25 · answer #6 · answered by lilkitty4eva 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
umm u have some serious problems, ur sick get some help! not to be mean but yeah! OH yeah maybe why you can't spell is because you had to drop out of school cuz your sick with STD's or cuz you have a baby, think about what you're doing!! jeeze!
YOu're bf is probably just doing it for kicks, he'll dump you soon enough
is this a joke?
2006-10-01 20:51:07 · answer #7 · answered by Jamie P 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ok it is not normal for him to cut himself. That is a problem he needs to get help for. You are both to young to ge tmarried. Not only that but not legally old enough.
2006-10-01 21:00:02 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u shouldnt get married at 13. At 13 you dont know what you are doing. it seems like you have a sick relationship with your boyfriend.
2006-10-01 20:56:04 · answer #9 · answered by claidifl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're kids. Don't get married and DON'T have sex. You have enough problems. What you need is to talk to a professional psychiatrist to work out your problems.
2006-10-01 20:50:39 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ur both too young for thisIf both of u wants this relationship last,give urself time, study hard @ be matured in life.When that days comes @ both are still inlove go ahead.
2006-10-01 21:00:29 · answer #11 · answered by jeayuma 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋