The guy i'm interested in just got a job offer 7 hours away. He'd be home on weekends but it would be really hard to have a relationship. He asked me tonight what i wanted him to do. To stay or go. I told him that i wanted him to stay but i wanted him to do what was best for him. Am i being selfish? I want him to stay but don't want him to regret his decision if things don't work out between us.
2006-10-01 13:46:47 · 8 answers · asked by countrygirl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
your doing exactly what is right. If he chooses to stay here and give up that job offer than he loves you more than I can say. If he leaves, it doesn't mean that he doesn't like you, but he just thinks that, maybe, this job offer is hwats best...
2006-10-01 13:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by phatpigs 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of course you are being selfish. But he's a fool to ask a girl who is "interested" in him. Teen infatuations come and go like hunger pangs. If he doesn't "go" then you will move on because that will make him a real loser. Right?
2006-10-01 20:50:20 · answer #2 · answered by ALWAYS GOTTA KNOW 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Long distance isn't that bad, you know. My husband lives 2000 miles away in another country. We've been travelling back and forth for 5 years. You get used to it.
Don't hold him back. He'll resent you for it in the end.
2006-10-01 20:55:10 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just i think yall should roll the dice and see what yall get u know what i mean..realationships is like a game of craps or a really high stakes game of poker...you very rarely win....keep on playing the hands ur delt, or keep rolling the dice...but when u find someone u like, when u are happy and feel like u have won...stop and keep what u got...
2006-10-01 20:50:27 · answer #4 · answered by whiskey1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nothing wrong with the fact that you don't want him to go. But if this is something he's been waiting for. Then let him go.
2006-10-01 21:19:56 · answer #5 · answered by mzteajae 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's his decision what he chooses to do in the end. After all, you aren't married. Anyways, good luck. Let him do what he needs to do.
2006-10-01 20:49:21 · answer #6 · answered by Jennifer R 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
let him go you will still see him and if things don't work out than it won't be that hard of a break up
2006-10-01 20:50:02 · answer #7 · answered by lishlama 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are not being selfish. you were honest with him, and that is all you can do.hopefully, he will make a good descision, but it is his to make. if you throw a fit after that, then you are being selfish.
2006-10-01 20:51:16 · answer #8 · answered by dragonwythe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋