2006-10-01 13:46:39 · 19 answers · asked by azar_ame 1 in Social Science ➔ Psychology
by realisation. realise the situation and face reality. reality is facing life. o.k.
2006-10-02 05:03:49 · answer #1 · answered by prince47 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The answers so far have started with an introduction to infatuation. I wold not go into that. The question presupposed that the questioner is alredy infatuated or knows how falling it it.In the devotional path realisation is equated to liberation.The same criterion here. And realisation can come about only through efforts and not by others forcing it into your head.A new convert may become as assiduous follower as some new European and American youth converts have shown with their identification with terrorism.But when the dissillusionment comes it prostrates them.A horse-owner can at best lead it to a tank but the drinking has to be done by the horse.So as Alexander Pope said years ago.A little learning is a dangerous thing/Drink deep at the fountain of learning.
2006-10-02 01:29:01 · answer #2 · answered by Prabhakar G 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Well when u start thinking practically. And u know time will tell u how crazy u were then and now u r hardly bothered about the subject u were under infatuation. Think clearly and sceintificaly more practically u are out of infatuation. Till such time u do enjoy the feeling.
2006-10-02 01:06:31 · answer #3 · answered by Loganathan R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't create a beautiful picture of the object of infatuation in your mind. Create as many as bad points about it and think what kind of a mind it has. Remember it is always mind over body and how you want to spend rest of your life.
2006-10-01 22:04:12 · answer #4 · answered by blacktea 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you are trying to overcome your infatuation, you are obviously no longer infatuated
2006-10-02 11:29:25 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Beautiful - I love this - took me a zillion years to understand this. However, I finally get it.
When you are attracted to someone trying to compensate from your feelings of lack, the ego is really telling you this other person has it together in the areas you feel insecurity. This is very unconscious and you think it is love at first site when in fact it is neurosis real high. So the ego is sending you to that person and you have this idea being with this person will bring you heaven forever. On top of this, you have all this cultural stimulus that says “yes” romance is your salvation. If you want to get married, have babies, have a loving relationship that is beautiful, the problem is you are in love with the picture because in your mind you believe another person is the source of your happiness.
2006-10-01 20:56:43 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
This happens to me sometimes, and when it passes, I think about how silly it was.
It will pass eventually, if you ignore your object of affection for a while, and concentrate on other things.
Sounds like you don't want your infatuation for some reason, so just do other things or see other people.
2006-10-01 22:09:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
If the person realises as infatuation then the person is on the right track and it is the true beginning.
The time is the main Allie but realisation must be there to start with. In time the person will forget that person.
2006-10-01 20:57:23 · answer #8 · answered by minootoo 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Hi,
Keep yourself busy in doing different activities, and you will definitely come out from your present situation of being infatuated. BET IT.
2006-10-03 01:26:22 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont read tat big answers u can overcome it simply by propsing tat girl or boy and marry him . but remember if all things goes in right manner..then tu to fas gaya jaise main fasa hoon.
2006-10-02 13:32:07 · answer #10 · answered by Milu 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
infatuation is what attracts u to opposite sex & it common in everybody so just relax make friends & enjoy life
2006-10-02 08:35:52 · answer #11 · answered by VIJESH M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋