Hearing a lot about this,who is saying it and why?
2006-10-01 13:31:36 · 20 answers · asked by mesmerized 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
( not relevant to me personally,just interested)
2006-10-01 13:36:21 · update #1
because they are not clever enough to realise what they have and how too look after it
2006-10-02 00:25:26 · answer #1 · answered by ikklealsum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there are many guys that do both ..my husband and i have 6 children combined he has 3 from a previous relationship , i have 2 and we have 1 together ..we have been together for 9 years and our relationship is just as strong and vibrant and interesting as it was from day 1.. he also is an incredible dad.we have 6 kids 4 days a week and 3 for the other 3 and he is so involved he doesn't miss a beat he doesn't miss a sports event a school event or just a family dinner...any guy can be a father it takes a real man to be a dad....most people that have this opinion are with their man for the wrong reason not because their in love but because the stay for the kids which is a horrible misjustice for the kids..you can be a good parent living in another home as long a s you chose to stay connected and to get along for the health of your kids
2006-10-01 13:45:01 · answer #2 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am sure that most guys would love to be both a great husband and a great father, we would all like to be perfect wouldn't we?
It's just that in the real world many of us are not perfect, but the secret of happiness is to look at the good things and not focus on the bad.
Take people for what they are, not what you would like them to be.
2006-10-01 13:41:20 · answer #3 · answered by Nick C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not me. My husband IS both. he's a great provider,spends all his off work time with us. Does housework,is an awesome daddy,great lover,most importantly,my best friend.
But forget about both,there are many guys who do nothing.
2006-10-01 13:33:34 · answer #4 · answered by TrofyWife 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
that's an obvious answer us women are always going on about how men cannot multi-task like we all can surely being a good daddy and husband is way too much to ask.
2006-10-01 13:34:36 · answer #5 · answered by missree 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yep this applies to me!! Well not me my ex-partner.....
He was a sh.it of a boyfriend but turned out to be a great dad!
I suppose I was glad it was this way around, our baby is the most important person to the both of us........it's a shame I think..
2006-10-01 22:51:12 · answer #6 · answered by EMA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because some women you can't live with but it's so easy to see that only the child understands!
2006-10-01 13:36:07 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I not my husband is both a grate husband and father... (Well I believe he'll be a grate father it is awesome with children)
2006-10-01 13:33:41 · answer #8 · answered by Sekkennight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some guys just don't care and some do. I really don't know how to tell you anymore simply then that
2006-10-01 13:39:58 · answer #9 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Some men can, but take what you can get especially someone who'll be a good dad.
2006-10-01 13:34:44 · answer #10 · answered by CALAVA 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
life is too complicated that's why.
we have to go get a good job, be good in bed, be stand up, have morals, etc..and then we have to be good husbands and fathers??
what?
too much work!
2006-10-01 13:33:53 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋