how do you go about telling your mate that you want a 3-some?

Question

want to have one with my hubby but not sure if he is down i dont wanna cheat but it does intrige me to experience that with him but at the same time i am stingy and dont like to share....this is my dilema....only serious resposes please!!!!

Answer 1

Erica Jong, who wrote "the fear of flying" and invented the term "the zipless f***," encouraged the Cosmo Girl to become a woman and screw strangers on airplanes and have many other sexual adventures. This book was published in 1973.

. Just a few years ago, Ms. Jong said that women should, she came to realize, experience wild sex in fantasy, not reality. She said the gap between reality and fantasy is filled with pain and loss of self-respect and the destruction of meaningful relationships.

I'd ponder what she has to say as you think about putting this fantasy into reality. If you disregard her counsel, I'd say The B Man's answer is most sound.

Answer 2

i might have an open communicate alongside with your "mate" and tell her how obnoxious her little lady is. Do it in a comfortable way, as sometimes mum and dad take it as a protection that their parenting skills are at fault, it is quite the actuality because of the fact the mummy would desire to have already positioned some rules approximately hitting in rigidity and function given time outs. Hitting the infant who's additionally hitting others isn't the respond.

Answer 3

It depends on what you mean by 3-some. You, your husband and another woman? Or you, your husband and another man? I assume you mean another woman.

I suppose the best way to approach that is to joke around about it first, and then approach him seriously about it later. Slowly start talking about it. And he is a guy. It's not like he's going to turn down the opportunity to have sex with two women at the same time. It shouldn't take too much convincing on your part.

But if you are talking about another man, then I very seriously doubt he'll ever consent to that.

Answer 4

maybe you should try and show it to her in a movie and discuss her feelings on the subject but you have to do it while watching the movie get her answer then and if she says no to the subject ask her why? maybe then you'll get a chance to ask at this time....

Answer 5

Try to talk to him about it,but be carefull how you put it he might get really upset, just be carefull about how you brieng it up ,never know he might have been thinking about it to,but it"s not really fair for you him ,her and not him you, her. Anyhow just talk open about it but not like it"a a have to be.

Answer 6

You might try getting his permission and asking him nicely to be sensitive to your request; otherwise you could just forget it, as it may not be worth it. Sorry.

Answer 7

so do you want a3 some or not?

just mention it to him see what his reaction is -take it from there

you need to be sure this is what you want!!( you will have to share)

Answer 8

open mouth and say, I want a three sum, will work for a starter.