2006-10-01 13:23:32 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
People form bonds very early on, thats why its difficult to get into a click thats already been formed, so yes, its is hard. Just always be friendly and that actually works, dont stress, there is a passenger for every train :)
2006-10-01 13:25:33 · answer #1 · answered by ladywonder 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No I do not. Maybe you are picking the wrong people for friends, or maybe you need to take a good look at yourself. Do you make a friend and then they bail on you? If so, why do they? Do some serious thinking and you will see what the problem is. Only you can answer that.
2006-10-01 20:27:36 · answer #2 · answered by Ex Head 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I had a hard time finding friends to and I just gave up...it's good to have alot of friend yet bad cause then 1 always want to hang out then the other get's uupset cause your not hangin with them
2006-10-01 20:31:38 · answer #3 · answered by Mysterious 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a hard time finding CLOSE friends. most of my friends i'm close with for a while, but then over the summer when i dont see them as much they kind of forget about me.
maybe it's something you're doing or saying that makes them mad or annoyed and they're just not telling you? get involved with some organizations to help you find some friends - ask them to do stuff with you on the weekends and things like that....then when you feel close enough to one of them, ask them if it's something you're doing that drives other people away?
2006-10-01 20:26:37 · answer #4 · answered by mighty_power7 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can go to your local library and check out the book "How To Win Friends and Influence People." One big thing is under no circumstances should you say or do anything to try and impress anyone. Because when you do that you are not truly being yourself, which once you have gotten to know those you are trying to impress they will learn you are not exactly what you presented yourself as. In other words, just be yourself. "To thine own self be true."
2006-10-01 20:58:23 · answer #5 · answered by Tom 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest, so do i.
I dont mean to anecdote, but let me tell you a story.
I'm about to move schools and i'm doing the purpose that i know i will do better in another school. I've been in my old school for several years and i'm about to lose all my friends.
I know that when i do go to my new school, its gonna be hard but i'm gonna have to cope with it all, and the case is that i'm usually shy too.
Whne you're in a crowd, just talk to them and socialise. Don't let your guts stop you becasue you honestly have nothing to lose since you already have no dignity (no offense).
Just talk and see what they do....as cliche and corny as it seems.....you just gotta talk.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 20:28:31 · answer #6 · answered by Jonathan N 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, I do too. I don't know why but have prayed about it for years. God finally sent me two friends - one about 4 yrs ago and one within the last year.
2006-10-03 23:01:37 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you live in a unfriendly city you should try harder to get involved in local activities in which there are alot of people your age with similar interests.
2006-10-01 20:29:42 · answer #8 · answered by dzjoni 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont't waoory everyone makes friends.... just be yourself and somones going like you for who you are... trust me it happens and try to talk to people works faster lol.....
2006-10-01 20:26:27 · answer #9 · answered by SaY wHaT >? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop digging in your nose when u talk to people
2006-10-01 20:25:37 · answer #10 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋