should be on september 6....but did'nt show up.....i took a home pregnancy test on september 10th and it came back positive....who's most likely...baby it is....opinions needed please.
2006-10-01 13:21:00 · 28 answers · asked by sweetness 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
It must be rough when you have sex with so many people you have no idea who the father is. You may end up needing some sort of DNA test to find out.
2006-10-01 13:27:53 · answer #1 · answered by Kokopelli 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
More than likely #1. You were probably pregnant already when you had sex with #2. Between sex with #2 and the pregnancy test was only 8 days and thats kind of a slim chance of getting a positive in that short amount of days. Plus if your period was due September 6th you probably ovulated two weeks earlier, long before guy #2.
2006-10-01 20:42:39 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Read Misty's story. I don't agree with most answers saying that it should be 1. If you had sex with 1 for a long time without being pregnant then maybe you were less compatible then with 2. Paternity test would be a good idea but also it's time to decide whom you hope is the father and would stay with you to raise the kid. Talk to friends you trust to be sure how to tell him (not all guys react the same way when they learn they will be a parent).
Before you ask yourself all those questions, are you sure you want to be pregnant? Talk to you doc ASAP to be sure it's not too late for the plan B pill for example and have a blood test to be sure you are pregnant before telling anyone something about it since you can skip a month for many reasons!!!
2006-10-04 11:33:48 · answer #3 · answered by Mel 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your period was due on September 6th and had come then you would have known that you had ovulated on August (No matter what your cycle length is, you ALWAYS ovulated 14 days before the onset of your period.) So assuming that you ovulated on that date then you would have to have had unprotected sex within 5 days of the ovulation usually after the ovulation, but it could easily be 2 days before until like 3 days after. So only unprotected sexual intercourse which occurred between August 21st and August 26th (maybe as late as August 28th) would have caused the pregnancy. Your September 2nd liaison was done as an already pregnant women. This is probably about 98% correct. Good luck! your going to need it. This is the first day of the rest of your life. You never "not" have a child after having one, your always different after it happens.
2006-10-01 20:45:41 · answer #4 · answered by a_gyno_guy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
At least you know when your period should have been, this might help. My advice is to get to an OBGYN asap to see what the ultrasound says your expected due date is AND at that point you might have a clue as to who the father is UNLESS you were sleeping with one guy one day and next... and if that is the case my only suggestion is who do you want to be with if either of them and then be honest and upfront about it and when the baby gets here do a dna test to see. Hope this helps and know that you are not the only one that this has happened to. Good Luck!
2006-10-01 20:34:54 · answer #5 · answered by Dixie C 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ok guy #1 is the father ! i will give a you reason why! you ovulate 10 to 14 days after your period so no the guy #2 would not be the father.......lets say if you wasn't pregnant right now and you got your period on sept 6 then you would ovulate 16-20 that is the best days to conceive.....so you probably conceive with this one around mid august your ok ....I hope this help also if you want assurance go to www.babyzone.com put in your last period not the sept 6 ( or if you don't know when your last period was then go ahead and put this one in) click on trying to conceive they will ask you when the first day of your last period was you put that in ,then they will give you a calender of when you will ovulate now you should be in the month of october go back to august and it will have big hearts letting you know when your days of fertility was and that should give reassurance of what i just told
2006-10-01 21:06:51 · answer #6 · answered by TinkerBell 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only way of telling which guy is actually the father is to wait until the baby is born and have a DNA test. In the mean time, you should let both guys know that if you are pregnant, it could be either of their child. That way the drama and stress in your life will be a minimum. I hope this helps and good luck!
2006-10-01 20:31:44 · answer #7 · answered by Kim 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Most likely, it should be guy#1 who would have made you pregnant. If your periods were to start on 6th Sep you are potentially in a very low fertility on 2nd Sep, this period is also known as safe days. But it all depends upon the regularity of your periods, and safe days are not gauranteed. I think a paternity test is required to determine who the dad is, otherwise, it is all guesswork. See a doctor, find out who it is.
2006-10-01 20:39:15 · answer #8 · answered by SH 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Most likely guy #1 as you were to close to your date to start when you were with guy #2. You were most likely already pregnant on Sept 2.
Trace back the first day of your last period count off 12 days from that date in August. That is the start of ovulation for you, it only lasts 12 -72 hours. It is in this time frame that you can get pregnant.
Who were you with then? He is most likely the father.
2006-10-01 20:34:07 · answer #9 · answered by my_iq_135 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Thats kinda like that math problem from high school...if train A leaves the station at 3:45 at 40mph...well you know what I'm talking about...
The only truely definitive answer is by DNA testing...or if one guy is of the same race as you, and another guy is of a different one, you should be able to tell when the baby is born...
2006-10-04 15:41:01 · answer #10 · answered by skigirl1312 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well...there really isn't a definite way to tell...until you take a paternity test. BUT.. it does sound like it may be guy #1 !!! It would have been to soon for the sperm from guy #2 to implant in only 4 days,,,and for you to show up pregnant by him 6 days later.
You don't mention what is a regular basis with guy #1.. .is it every day...every other day ????
Nex time..... stick with one man.... look at all the drama you just caused yourself !!!!!!!!!!!!
2006-10-01 20:36:12 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋