lol im writing this again since noone answered that last time i asked.
i got a bunch of answers but i still hang nowhere... like i said. shes my best friend for about half a yr. we talk every day till 2am and she really cares about me and i care about her.
theres a but... if she says no i might lose her best friend thing. should i wait? i mean we know eachother for half a yr if not shorter, and we met for about 3months in class. we started really talking right before the summer break.
2006-10-01 12:56:39 · 6 answers · asked by polish 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I would give it a shot...
2006-10-01 13:18:26 · answer #1 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i would wait. I'd build on the friendship more and while doing that..the trust is building as well. talking every day is good but do you talk about how you two feel about each other..doubt that huh? you 2 basically shoot the **** on everything and anything .i bet you can talk to her about anything right? and i bet she's the first person you think of when you wake up right? you two get along so well that u wonder if you 2 crossed over the line of friendship..will it ruin the friendship right? if you and her are truly the best of the bestest of friendships then crossing over into something else is possible. do you think that if you do ..that YOU will still think of her as a Friend? or something else? would you 2 feel odd the next time you see each other after that? no one knows that and if the friendship is as strong as you say then wait awhile longer but keep your eyes and ears open.....
2006-10-01 13:14:23 · answer #2 · answered by ggmsixer 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's great to ask your best friend out. I fell in love with my best friend and we've been married 22 Years.
Listen to what you said, you talk every night until 2 am or later. You are already getting the signal "YES".
Having a foundation built on a true friendship is the "real deal" Physical attraction is only a plus.
Don't delay.
2006-10-01 13:14:47 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
You should tell her how you feel, but let her know that no matter what she says you still want her friendship. Trust me if you don't tell her you'll always wonder "what if?" If she is staying on the phone that long it is a good indication that she feels the same way. Maybe she is afraid to lose your friendship also. You could write a letter that way if she says no you can almost pretend it didn't happen.
2006-10-01 13:05:21 · answer #4 · answered by gizbit76 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummm are trying to ask her out because some best friend relantionships dont work its either they know to much about you or they just in your space so id ont think you should ask her but if you like her that much then do it its worth a try
2006-10-01 13:03:51 · answer #5 · answered by dfizzgurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She says no to what? Well if your asking her out Do it very honestly otherwise you could lose her.
2006-10-01 13:06:11 · answer #6 · answered by Lil Meli 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋