i am 14 and pregnant.i dont know anything about pregnacy and stuff.I cannot tell my mother either.My best friend knows and he can understand me but he doesn't know how to take care of me.I am scared cause i am bleeding all the time.Can you tell me what to do?Or consult me..or tell me more about pregnancy..i am in 3rd month but still i don't know anything.I am scared.What can happen??
2006-10-01 12:54:56 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Pregnancy
If you are definitely pregnant and bleeding then something is very wrong.
You need to go to a doctor.
Since you think you were grown up enough to have sex, then you need to be grown up enough to deal with the consequences.
Quit being selfish, tell your parents and get to a doctor before you or the baby dies, or both of you do.
2006-10-01 12:56:56 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sweetie- You really need to go to a doctor. You might even need to go to the Emergency Room. Bleeding can be extremely serious- for you and the baby. You need to give this baby the best start in life by taking the proper prenatal vitamins and taking
doctor's advice.
My nephew's girlfriend didn't tell anyone she was pregnant and
delivered 2 months premature. She wishes she had told someone- denial doesn't work when you are pregnant. You
will end up seeing this little one in less than 6 months and you
will want to know that you gave it the best possible start. You
might even be surprised that you have lots of support from family and your community.
More than likely you can get free care at a clinic. You could call in advance- or talk to a hotline- or call an emergency room nurse.
I urge you to seek help as soon as you can. They will be able to ease your mind by giving you and your baby the proper care and you will have a much less stressful pregnancy. This is a decision
that will stay with you for the rest of your life. If your baby is born
with a problem because you didn't have enough of a particular
vitamin, you'll have a hard time forgiving yourself later.
God bless you and your baby. Get some help immediately. There are hotlines listed on the first pages of your phonebook. Call any of them- and they'd probably be able to get you the number atleast of someone you can talk to and someone who can point you towards the proper doctor and advice.
2006-10-01 13:09:16 · answer #2 · answered by Linda S 4 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I am pregnant presently 12 weeks and five days. During my ninth week of being pregnant I skilled a few bleeding. At first it used to be shiny pink it used to be past due at night time. I used to be apprehensive however went to sleep. The subsequent morning whilst I went to make use of the toilet I spotted I used to be nonetheless bleeding this time mild pinkish in colour. Throughout the day it might give up and handiest obvious whilst I might urinate. It involved me so I made an appointment. Upon taking a sonogram I used to be advised the whole thing used to be best. It became out I had a urinary tract contamination and it prompted the bleeding. I used to be given antibiotics and all used to be good. So simply due to the fact you bleed for the duration of being pregnant doesn't suggest some thing is improper with the little one however I might verify it out to be at the trustworthy facet.
2016-08-29 09:31:04 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well first of all get prenatal care and take car of yourself. Tell your parents care they can help you more than you 14 year old friend. It is very normal to bleed because your body is not sure what is going on being that you are very young. The baby did not ask to be here so take care of it the best that you can. Personally the best thing would be to speak with an adult and get help for yourself and the child.
2006-10-01 13:00:24 · answer #4 · answered by K 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well my mom bled for the first five months while she was pregnet with me and her doctor said some women do it. Its not really uncommen the best thing to do is keep clean and visit a doctor because it might also mean that your have a few problems with the baby. GOOD LUCK!!!
2006-10-01 12:58:06 · answer #5 · answered by oopsy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No offense but if you are hiding a pregnancy from your mom, have you thought about how you are going to hide a BABY? You've kinda gotta tell her sometime, hmm, seems like now is a good time
2006-10-01 13:05:52 · answer #6 · answered by trailertrash611 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go see a dr. it will benefit you and your baby greatly. you need to continue seeing a dr. regularly through your pregnancy too. tell your parents- at least your mom for now. your friend is a boy and possibly too young to help you medically so please quit depending on his as your dr. I pray for the best for the both of you. Take care of yourself!
2006-10-01 13:06:06 · answer #7 · answered by staceylovesshon 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
the baby might be dead. but u need go to the doctor. u have to tell your mother cuz she knows best and she can understand u better then your friend don't be scared.
2006-10-01 13:19:46 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
baby, are u bleeding alot? really heavy? are u cramping with it? or is it more like a period every month? i need more details. u really should tell ur mother. u need help we cant physically give u online. i feel so badly for u.
2006-10-01 12:57:02 · answer #9 · answered by Ms. Meli 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Honey child go to the doctor
2006-10-01 12:56:46 · answer #10 · answered by prizelady88 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋