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well, im not going to have sex with him, I know better than that. i just know he wouldn't have stuck around for 3 years if thats all he wanted. i just dont know what to tell him? i cant tell my mom,she'd get angry ( at him not me)...i mean, how old were you? I'm so confused.....please help!

2006-10-01 12:53:29 · 12 answers · asked by Amber L 1 in Health Women's Health

12 answers

Tell him you're not ready for sex yet and for him to keep on pleasuring himself.

2006-10-01 12:55:35 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

If you don't want to DON'T. He has not been with you for the sex. If that was the case he would have left in the 2nd month or so. Its normal im guessing he is also 15 or 16. this is when his hormones are ragging and hes growing up. You guys have been together for 3 years you not wanting to have sex yet shouldn't cause a brake up. he would understand if hes a good bf.

2006-10-01 13:43:31 · answer #2 · answered by La Princesa 6 · 0 0

I'm 19 and still a virgin (not because of lack of requests, though). Wait until your married. It's the only real birth control and studies have shown that couples that haven't had sex before marriage last longer. Besides maybe taking cold showers, there isn't a down side to waiting.
What I'd tell him is that you love him, that you're proud of him and think he is a great, hot guy, but you just arn't ready.

2006-10-01 13:04:58 · answer #3 · answered by Lissa 3 · 2 0

OK - you have your head on straight, which is good. You stick to your guns and tell him that you are not ready for sex, for parenthood, for the kind of responsibilities that come with sex. Is he?

Of course he wants to experience sex because he is nothing but walking hormones at this time of his life and I am sure that the urges are there for you too, but believe me when I tell you that if you wait until you are ready it will be so much better.

I am proud that you know what is best for you. If he walks because you won't have sex at 15 it is a good thing to find out now.

(((((hugs))))

2006-10-01 12:57:59 · answer #4 · answered by dddanse 5 · 1 0

You are great for knowing to wait. Tell him you are not ready and if he insists and pushes you I would really start to wonder if he really loves you. I would tell him that there is always the cold shower and he should try it. You should talk with your mom and try to make her understand that it is to be just between you and her. But stick to your guns I was married before I ever had sex and I think it brought my husband and me closer together. It should be a special night for you both.

2006-10-01 13:26:41 · answer #5 · answered by marie w 2 · 1 0

Good on you for saying no! Tell him that it's illegal to have sex with a 15 year old, and that a statutory rape conviction is just not worth it. Wait until you have reached the age where you are both legal.

2006-10-01 14:21:23 · answer #6 · answered by Seraphim 6 · 1 0

Tell him that you are not ready. If he asks when you will be ready then tell him when you know he will. As far as your mom, I am a mother and yes I would be upset with him BUT I would be very proud of you for one saying no and two being able to talk to her about such a matter. Your 15 and have your whole life ahead of you, enjoy it!

2006-10-01 13:03:19 · answer #7 · answered by Casper 2 · 0 0

If you're not ready, then tell him so. If he's worth anything, he'll respect your decision. If he doesn't, then he's obviously a piece of **** and not worth a damn. You'll need to throw him back and get another one. Sorry if that's a little too harsh for you, but that's simply the way life is.

2006-10-01 18:45:13 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0 0

I would do it...he probably wouldn't stick around that longn for sex..i mean 3 years...my gosh...but yea...if i ever dated a guy for even a year I'd have sex...I just emnd up with 20 days or shorter relationships cause I dump them so fast...but yea...I'm losing mine before my 14th birthday cause my older friends all lost it when they were 14...you could always dump him if you really don't wanna do it...or just explain why you don't want to...good luck though whatever you choose
xoxo
Kelli

2006-10-01 12:57:23 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0 1

no sex till 18

2006-10-01 13:02:26 · answer #10 · answered by Very late 1 · 1 0

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