I can get erect, but not ejaculate?

Question

I can get aroused and erect, both by my own masturbating and by my girlfriend. But, although I can pump myself to ejaculation.. it doesn't work when my girlfriend does it. Anyone have any suggestions? We've tried oral sex too, but still no juice.

Answer 1

Well, you did not provide enough information, but I will have to take a wild guess here.

Do you or did you masturbate often? and during masturbation did you use lubrication such as water, soap etc? if the answer is yes, then the answer for your problem is excessive masturbation that has caused a temp decrease in the sensitivity of the nerve endings in your penis. If that is the case, then if u refrain from masturbation for a period of around 90 days, then the sensitivity should be back to normal.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

You Have To Be The Unluckiest Person Ever. On The Other Hand It Looks Like You Might Be An Exhibitionist. So... Um... There's The Silver Lining To Your Otherwise Horrible Day. To Answer You Question No I Am Not Embarrassed About My Size, But I Was When I Was Like 12-16 Since I had Seen Plenty Of Porn And Saw That Most Guys Were Hung Like Elephants (From The Front). And You Have A Wife Though Right? So That's A Win Too. On The Other Hand If You Decide To Become A Comedian This Would Kill. I Almost Died. (Like Not Kidding I Had My Chair On Its Hind Legs And Fell. My Chair Left A Crack On My Italian Tile)

Answer 4

There are several reasons why this might happen.
If you have got into a habit of masturbating with a lot of rough handling of your penis, it may have become desensitized. For example, some guys like to masturbate by "humping the bed", which can lead to an inability to ejaculate. You can read more about this here, and what to do about it.
http://www.the-penis.com
http://www.healthystrokes.com/
Alternatively, you may have some emotional issues with women which make it difficult for you to "let go" and release your ejaculation during sex. You can read more about this here:
http://www.the-penis.com/premejac.html
It's not particularly unusual for men not to be able to come during oral sex, by the way, since there often just isn't enough friction on the penis to take a man to orgasm.
Finally, if you want free personal on-line counselling, go to
http://www.sex-and-relationships.com
Rod

Answer 5

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Studies have shown that premature ejaculation has a direct relationship with age. As men grow older and testosterone levels drop with age, premature ejaculation most likely sets in.

Answer 6

The Diagnostic Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders (DSM IV) defines premature ejaculation as a persistent or recurrent ejaculation with minimal sexual stimulation before, on or shortly after penetration and before a person wishes. Wow, that’s not a sexy definition. Personally, I define it as you come quicker than you or your partner wants. Luckly this is a great solution for premature ejaculation https://tr.im/770b8

Answer 7

Try to watch some sex movie and learn more technique, try to watch the Japanese one, because they have more foreplay and fun game than the state product (mostly pumping). Just think sex is a fun, not a job for eject only, then you can be more relax to enjoy and finally get into ejection. Remember, you are not a glue gun for glue only.

Answer 8

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Answer 9

It sounds as if you are having mixed feelings about your sexual relationship with your girlfriend

Answer 10

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