my friend told me I was racist because i am black and my boyfriend is black. She says black-black relationships are racist and they will never work out.
2006-10-01 12:36:58 · 28 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Cultures & Groups ➔ Other - Cultures & Groups
hmm no
2006-10-01 12:38:32 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok I'm not black but what difference does it make if your black and your boyfriends black? Is your friend white? I always said you can't help who you fall in love with. I say no your not racist. Maybe your friend is. Good luck
2006-10-01 19:39:59 · answer #2 · answered by Teresa W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Only if you have racist feelings, then you're racist. Just
because you're black, and your boyfriend is black that
doesn't make you a racist. If you're dating him because
he is black, that might make you racist, against other races.
If you're dating him for other reasons other than his race, then
you're not racist. You should date the person because you like
that person and want to date that person, not what the person's race is.
2006-10-01 19:40:57 · answer #3 · answered by Answerer17 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
LMAO you friend is racist and black and black relationships work
2006-10-01 19:39:26 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you joking? Maybe your freind does not understand what the word 'racist' means. Cuz the hands down answer is NO you are NOT a racist.
2006-10-01 19:42:07 · answer #5 · answered by Anne A 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your friend has stepped over her bounds. Perhaps you should drop her, as she will next decide that she should go out with your boyfriend to 'save' you from your 'racist' tendencies.
Get some new friends, imo.
2006-10-01 19:42:49 · answer #6 · answered by nora22000 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that is so stupid, is your friend wanting ur boyfriend???? and she or is ur friend a boy and wants u? and thinks by puttin bull in ur head that she/he can get yall to break up? but that is so stupid that was a racist remark that ur friend made, re eveluate if theyre ur friend,
does ur friend mean that ur racist toward his/her race? that wouldnt make since if u were just attracted to black men theres nothing wrong
2006-10-01 19:42:11 · answer #7 · answered by mssjj87 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i believe your friend is racist.
whats black?
2006-10-01 19:52:07 · answer #8 · answered by mechlined 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how is that racist? your friend is being ridiculous, dont listen to her. race shouldnt matter in relationships, whether they are mixed ethnicities or the same. also, man people are more comfortable dating within their race. whether you do or dont is your choice, but neither is racist.
2006-10-01 19:39:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nope. That's natural. It's natural for people to prefer some looks over others in potential mates, and those preferences generally go along racial lines because people mostly like the looks of others who they've been around most.
Having preferences for what you think looks good based on how people look is not prejudism. Having preferences for what you think of people just based on how they look is prejudism.
2006-10-01 19:39:04 · answer #10 · answered by nondescript 7 · 2⤊ 0⤋
am i a bad person becuase i wanted to answer yes before i read the details? but honestly you arent racist. your friend is a dumb@$$
2006-10-01 19:43:29 · answer #11 · answered by anarchy41186 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋