My mom die when I was eight years old and she is not going to be there and I would like my dad to be there but I know he wont be there because he has been going in and out of jail my whole life what should I do.
2006-10-01 12:31:48 · 11 answers · asked by Shanners 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Hearing your story breaks my heart... Regardless of what anyone here is going to say to you, you are going to have this feeling of hate towards him anyway.
I would have to say that my father is also in jail for the rest of his life and what makes me mad about that is he won't see any of his grandchildren grow get married and have children of there own. He wont see me get married or be there for his grandchildren either.
What you need to do is hold tight to the family that you have who will be there. there is going to be a point in your fathers life that he will come around and be so sorry for all that he has put you threw and he will be so upset that he wasn't there for you when he needed to be.. .Unfortantly it will be to late but you will see one day that what your dad has done to you will not matter when you are out on your own and when you have your own children you will be the best parent to them due to the fact that your dad wasn't the best parent to you..... Remember that when you are a adult you can't blame your faults and your actions on your parents you can make your own choices and be your own person. You have control of your future.. Don't make it one full of hate and anger towards others it will make you age fast...
2006-10-01 12:39:34 · answer #1 · answered by Mellisa C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, dont be mad at anyone. Be happy for yourself for going this distance with one parent that was there part time for you. My hat is off to you for going thru all you did. I am sure your Mother would be very proud of you. You Dad although is in jail for some unknown reason is proud of you too. I am proud of you. Lots of kids that have two parents that are there every night with their children dont make it as far as you have. So..... hold your head high and know that I for one am very proud of you. Dont give up!! You continue to finish this last year of high school and when you get out, look into continuing your education. I wish all children was as determined at you have been. Great Job!!!!!!
2006-10-01 19:38:53 · answer #2 · answered by Peanut Butter 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow.....that really sucks, and I wouldn't wish that situation on anyone. I do have to admire you for being in school and wanting to finish and graduate. You obviously respect yourself, and want a better life. I know it must be really disappointing not to have him there. But being mad at your father is not going to change anything. Somebody must have been guiding you and taking care of you when your father couldn't be around. They must have taught you values and self-respect so that you would finish school. It would be nice if your father could be part of this....... but I think you know exactly who to thank for looking out for you, and caring about who and what you might turn out to be. Good Luck to You, and an early congratulations for staying in school and graduating!!
2006-10-01 19:54:37 · answer #3 · answered by dathinman8 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I feel sorry for you but to me it sounds to me like you have your head on tight..who else is there for you??getting mad at your dad isn't worth your time..go on with your life and make your mom proud and make something of your life..OK good luck and be someone that could make your mom proud
2006-10-01 19:36:47 · answer #4 · answered by Alli 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Get over it, graduate high school and go to college and make a better life than your parents did.
2006-10-01 19:33:58 · answer #5 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
write letters to him everyday telling him whats going on in school mail him report cards show him things from school when you visit. tell him when he gets out how much you want him to be in your life and not in jail. and remember to do the most important thing...tell him you love him and miss him.
2006-10-01 19:35:58 · answer #6 · answered by Chevy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get out as soon as can and have nothing more to do with him because one day you will have kids of your own and you don't want to put them through what you went through. and don't feel guilty about it either
2006-10-01 19:42:44 · answer #7 · answered by bobby h 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not at all.if he did a crime he must do the time.you should look after yourself.he is a loser an was not thinking of you when he was being bad was he.
2006-10-01 19:36:58 · answer #8 · answered by julie w 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why are you with him. isn't there some other family member you could've lived with?
2006-10-01 19:34:37 · answer #9 · answered by kimberly k 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
PRAY FOR HIM AND GET HIM HELP!
2006-10-01 19:33:54 · answer #10 · answered by Joe Prosnick 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋