heres the thing... i met a girl half a yr ago and now were best friends. i would talk to her everyday till 2am. and i do have feelings for her but i dont know if its too early. she seems that im her best friend but nothing more... any suggestions?
2006-10-01 12:30:29 · 23 answers · asked by polish 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
tell her how you feel, life is too short.
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2006-10-01 12:32:15 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ummmm tough one. I too had a very good relationship with this boy for about 4 yrs. I thought he and I would make a good boyfriend/girlfriend, but he never approached me. I went to our mutual friend and asked her why he never asked me out. She said that he was to afraid our relationship would not work out as boyfriend/girlfriend and he was afraid of losing our friendship. I was very disappointed we never tried so we never knew what could have been. Now, 30 yrs later, we have talked and sort of regret not trying. We are both married with children so it is not an option. I say, tell her how you feel. See what she says. You will never know until you ask.
2006-10-01 12:37:03 · answer #2 · answered by Ness 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have been that "friend" before and I can speak from experience when I say this. Most of the time when a girl doesnt push the relationship further then a friendship it means that she doesnt want it to "go there". I have seen times where this could get a little hairy. It is up to you if you want to take that chance.
2006-10-01 12:34:40 · answer #3 · answered by fancy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey, like the person above me said, do what seems best. She is either likes you like that or doesn't. But I think that you have a chance, and a good chance at that. I think that she has known you for so long, that the waiting and excitement of a relationship wore off, and now she is just your good friend. But hey, bring some excitement to her life, take the first step!
2006-10-01 12:35:01 · answer #4 · answered by recentlyconfirmedagnosticofminds 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
do not understand if its the superb answer, yet when I have been you, i might get him to work out a therapist one way or yet another. He desires to drag himself collectively and basically you are able to help him. probability him that he will by no potential see you back if he would not see a therapist. you are the only individual who concerns to him good now and in worst case, he would desire to surely kill himself if he loses you, and that i've got self assurance you do not prefer to stay with that for the time of your wakeful. on the 2nd he suffers from one thousand issues and he's unwell. help him first and then breakup the friendship.
2016-10-15 10:14:04 · answer #5 · answered by winstanley 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Once you introduce sex into your relationship you cannot go back. So, choose carefully if you want to make that change or not. You chould tell her you think you are falling for her and see how she responds. Or you could just go for it and give her a kiss at a particularly romantic time.
2006-10-01 12:32:14 · answer #6 · answered by Plasmapuppy 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give her hints to show her that you like her more than a friend, and if she still doesnt realizes then tell her how you feel-make the move
2006-10-01 13:00:13 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Go slow and ask her out...Don't tell her about your feelings until after a few times you go out somewhere..Then you'll know for sure if she can like you in the same way...good luck
2006-10-01 12:33:51 · answer #8 · answered by sweet_thing_kay04 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're not alone in that situation! Do what you feel is best, no one else can tell you when the right or wrong time is. Follow your heart, if you really love her, then follow what you think is right!
2006-10-01 12:31:47 · answer #9 · answered by *~*RaChAel*~* 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i think u ahould not tell her. maybe u should ask her about her feelings towards u and if she still finds u as her best friend just let it go control ur self and forget about ur feelings it will be fine i understand ur pain but its better than loosing her friendship dear.
2006-10-01 12:53:23 · answer #10 · answered by gleopathra 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her if she might like to consider dating a few times as a boy/girlfriend. See what her reaction is. :) Good Luck!
2006-10-01 12:34:49 · answer #11 · answered by tysavage2001 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋